There is one thing that I know for sure, every one has family! your first one, your blood family, the ones that should back each other, love each other, even if you have no reason, I believe you should find 1 reason to respect, love, an be there for one another, but then there's your other family, the kind of family you make along the way, even if its by mistake. that's the family that you can make, that will be there all the way. they don't have to be there for you, that's why there special, they put up with you, they love you, a family you build that will Carry the weight on your shoulders if it drops on to them or even if it doesn't, but don't get me wrong, your first family, your blood family is just as important as your second, and your 2nt family as your first.   inspired by my second family :)