If you aren't marrying your best friend do not get married at all.
I mean that and do not take it lightly.
If your best friend didn't like your new haircut would you care?
No, so don't care if your boyfriend doesn't like it.
If your best friend said hurtful words and degraded you, would you stay friends with them?
No, so don't keep your boyfriend who does that.
I want you to think about all of the incredible memories with your best friends.
Laying in bed discussing astrology until 4am
Playing sims until 6am
Adventuring to lookouts just in time for the sunset, and one time even for the sunrise
Sitting in the park beside the river doing blackout poetry
Laying in bed drinking hot tea and watching friends
Laying in the dark listening to music together
Discussing why intuition is one of the most important traits for people to have, although many don't.
Analyzing people and situations together
Getting really high and enjoying each other's company and meaningless giggles
I want you to think about your best friends and remind yourself that if this boy does not fall into this category, if this boy cannot do all of these things and be enjoyable company, then you don't need him.