she used to sing around the house songs from the Hit Parade there was a little transistor radio slim, dark green with a telescoping antenna kept on the kitchen windowsill she would listen to music singing along while cooking and cleaning or going solo a Capella Rosemary Clooney, Della Reece Frank Sinatra, Andy Williams Jo Stafford Weston she told me that when ‘Daddy” was in the hospital he had his favorites Don’t You Know and You’ll Never Know he asked her to sing them again and again her singing came from a good place somewhere deep inside her a place where she could just be herself apart from life’s responsibilities far away from the roles of wife and mother to too many children leaving behind the frustrations of carrying on in poverty’s face if only for the moment it took to sing a song she would sing about pyramids and sunrises about a lady with an enigmatic smile cheating hearts and when she might fall in love and we learned all those songs too as her hearing worsened she stopped singing as if she lost a piece of herself she’s gone now but we still have those memories a musical legacy for her talented children