i used to be the tough girl i used to be the girl who didnt care what anyone thought i must say i grew . i grew into a woman that i never knew existed while in high school im not that girl who you used to know im not that girl anymore. im a woman who has everything to live for. everything to strive for. im a woman who has nothing to love even for strangers. a woman who would easily defend a stranger in the street even if the gun is pointed to my head. im the woman anyone can count on. having two kids has changed my life drastically. its made me realize that life is more than just about money, love, friendship, family etc. theres more to whats visible to the eye. there is so much more however its hard to just simply tell someone whats more to life that just the above its indescribable. it cant be explained it simply as difficult as it sounds. after experiencing what life is all about . i can sincerely say i am not the girl i used to be . i am my own woman .