Graves are filled by bodies that used to be people. Decomposing flesh that litters the bottom of the coffins.
Do not visit my grave. I will not be there.
Instead, imagine me in the room where you are sitting. Talk to me, if you want. I'll answer in the wind chimes that ****** in the breeze.
I shall remind you that I love you. That you meant something to me and I appreciated your presence.
I shall touch your heart with remembered conversations. Wonderful words that will echo like bells in the silence.
Do you think death will make me forget you? No. It shall not. I will caress you with my zig zagging spirit that will stay with you long after my body is gone.
The priest will intone his prayers. The casket will be blessed.
Significant gestures that should bring comfort to those gathered.
Afterwards. Look around. I'll be wishing love on everyone. Smelling the funeral flowers that lie upon the newly laid dirt.