imagine a world split four different ways- a boat that wants to sail north, south, east and west all of them, all at the same time. you already know things are going to change but for now you sit in the boat, the four winds sipping tea and spinning tales of the north, south, east and west. it doesn't matter if the seas are stormy and the waves high, or if everything is flat and the sails lay limp against their lines, it matters that for now, you're in that boat and you gotta keep a clear head and do what you can. for now.
someday those four winds will escape, heading north, south, east and west, and you cannot pretend, you could never pretend that it wasn't going to be that way from the start. so in the end, no matter how much you want that world to be one, if north were to saunter south or east slip west, if south were to cruise north or west sneak east, it would all unravel and fall to pieces in your lap. the world isn't perfect like you want it to be but you can find your own balance, and keep it from getting worse.