WhenΒ Β 2012 happened I was sprayed with champagne in a room with painted dragons on the walls and my forty closest friends were kissing and smiling. Boys with long hair wrestled and the cab outside honked until the neighbors yelled profanities and it fell silent. Ex lovers ran for cover, as cigarettes rained from decaying porches with rusted wrought iron awnings. A grey tattered sweat filled shirt read 'you'll be old, someday' and the skirts were too short and covered with glitter. I hid in a corner on a rocking recliner, dressed like Audrey Hepburn's stunt double wishing my lip locks had meant something other than 'we're alone, and loveless.' Amazing Grace rang loud from twenty out of tune voices, the sound of a cruise ship colliding with an iceberg in the Atlantic. I thought about my mother alone with a dog and a hot air balloon puzzle, while her family was off pretending to want to be where they were. I thought about your grin and who your midnight moment was with, and I wondered if you wore the same masquerade of happiness, or if like me, you had already stopped faking it.