From noticing comes attraction from attraction comes desire from desire comes touching and tasting from touching and tasting comes craving from craving comes attachment from attachment comes expectation from expectation comes disappointment from disappointment comes resentment from resentment comes pain from pain comes anger from anger comes frustration from frustration comes unhappiness from unhappiness comes isolation from isolation comes loneliness from loneliness comes despair from despair comes boredom from boredom comes silence from silence comes acceptance from acceptance comes healing from healing comes a new life and then from that new life comes noticing and from noticing comes attraction and from attraction comes desire and if you are lucky you recognize the game.