We're surprised when our 93 year old grandparents die of old age. And we don't seem to see failing fires in our relationships until the Passion for battle is the only thing keeping the couple together. I'm no exception; my dad died three years ago and I still laugh at the joke he told 3 times, 5 years removed. I still hope to make fun of his beloved Maple Leafs. But, I guess I'm saying that some couples just need to alleviate their molten skin from the furies of battle.