she told me that I need to get some sleep, she has a child and works ‘till 12am most weeknights, then spends time with me, until the bags beneath her eyes become enough to outweigh the need to be WITH me, she lays tired but sleeps awake until she heres “mommy” then naps until 1pm, and I just get up hungover, it may be the need for common-law thats making me doubt.