I was sick, so i sent out pictures of myself in blankets, curled up miserably in bed with six boxes of tissues beside me and each of my friends sent me their love in response.
I was sick, so when you asked, i listed my symptoms like they were my favorite actors and you promised you’d give me yesterday’s homework.
I was sick, so i accepted soup and tea and let myself complain loudly. But when i was too sad to function or having a panic attack or unable to stomach another day of being broken, i sent out no pictures of myself. Even though i was wrapped up, miserable and alone in sweaty blankets, surrounded by six boxes of tissues. I told no one what was happening, i said, “I’m fine, i’m tired, it’s been a long week,” i lied through my sorry teeth and made myself walk through each day like a battlefield.
And i accepted no help because i didn’t deserve it, took no time off because i couldn’t afford it.
I was sick, sure, but it wasn’t real enough and when i was growing up, unless i was throwing up, i was alive enough to get things done so i told myself i wasn’t sick at all, just too lazy and stupid to focus, just a big disappointment.
I was sick but i didn’t want to ask for attention or make people think i was too weird to be their friend or be one giant burden.