coming new to love still I want to think about things you know and so I look deep into my heart and we must be candid and frank, you know; and of course we’ll have all those things like love, family, values and kids but look - a man needs what he needs and so that’s essential too, you know: so maybe 3 times a day in the first years and then depending on work and how often the kids are around you know; but really we have to manage at least once each day and so like that in our twenties and thirties maybe and then the kids go away in our forties and so maybe we’ll revert to 3 or 2 each day again for a while depending on my ability and yours too and then maybe only twice each day past in our sixties till our last days certainly and maybe just once when I say my final goodbye: that’s my proposition my beer-drinking plan for a whole life together... would you find that acceptable, sweet love of my life?