the blasphemer and the blushing bride have no recollection of things like pride one detests ceremony while the other revels in vows and prayers and all such spells one waits for a day of celebration and rejoices the other rebels against insincere voices and if the two were to ever meet or stranger still to share the same seat all feuds might be forgotten for the sake of the truth whatever one chooses to believe in one's youth the importance should be placed on agency rather than the pomp of unsavory pageantry