bukowski socialized with sean penn and madonna but he did not care for the material girl with her airs, acting like a literary poseur, name dropping, chatting about swinburne, like some patron at a bloomsbury salon. she even asked him if he would appear in her raunchy *** book but he refused. bukowski would complain to sean about madonna's phony behavior and sean would get furious and defensive. bukowski just laughed it off. he valued sean as a friend and an artist but he had no time for madonna playing hip, he said, she's not being real. bukowski treasured his daughter, his wife, his cats, classical music and his muse, his way with words, characters, situations. he was a regular guy and a gifted poet... and everyone called him hank.