Dissecting the phrase 'stealing the heart'... Not sure who coined it first, but it sounds like accusing the other for our own weakness! Don't you see?
Sometimes, we fall for someone, deeply and madly, when the other party is not an accomplice! They may not have a clue or they may want to avoid us like plague!
But, then every action of theirs gets filtered by our own interpretation, and we let the **** of our affection grow and eradicate anything that is ours; even when the other party did nothing wrong.
Finally, at some point in time, when the fog lifts and we realize we are buried deep under our own doing, we blame the other as stealing our heart! Really?