a body lies there, real enough -but it doesn't represent the man who changed a thousand lives with his smile and love. a man i never met, but through the effect he had on others, and they still receive me as family. what does one say to a grieving widow and her children? what does one do when listening to her crying as her great love lies in the casket? Nothing. There is nothing to do but join in the grief, relive stories, keep the memory alive of a man i never met.