WAIT. Stop sitting back. Oh god I want you to be up when you hear this. I know im gonna sound crazy but if you have ever been in a well of sadness or wanted to **** yourself. Dont ever trust the people who tell you to just wait it out. You are not made to mourn; as it is the biggest waste of time. The key is found in yourself and when you dont want to get up, the will is things that you do for you.