The words flash across my screen in comments of facebook pictures and news articles. Why are you still calling HER a he? How do you think that makes most of us feel? The fear and uncomfortableness, like a pink elephant in the room that no one seems to notice lingers in most of our minds. Gender has nothing to with what's between your legs or how you were born; but rather, it sits in your mind dragging along all your insecurities: you don't even feel safe in your own body. I am not a person of gender rather, I'm a blank slate. To think her coming out is a publicity stunt is quite alarming I have to wonder: when did that door in your mind close?