"there are two sides to every story" my mother says when I suggest that my brother could be a feminist. I'm tired of the "her outfit" side of the story. I'm tired of the "make me a sandwich" side of the story. I'm tired of the "friendzoned again" side of the story. I'm tired of the "woman gets acid thrown on her for rejecting advances" side of the story. I'm tired of any side of the story that marginalizes me for my gender.