i see the smiles and the laughter and i wonder what happened to the harsh words the angry looks of yesterday what has changed in the course of 24 hours to make us all so lovable? is it the celebration of a 'holy' day the gathering of 'friends' of is it just the continuance of what we're used to? it makes me laugh this phoniness but i must admit i do go with the flow i continue the hugs the laughter the nodding of understanding for this is what's expected in this crazy mixed up tedium we call 'family'.