I'm not sure what's best for you but I want to be able you make right decisions. Does he work? Does he go to school? Does he actually get off his *** and does something? Does he hurt you? Does he treat you right? Does he tells you how unconditionally he loves you? Does he show his actions but not by just words. Someone needs to step up to the plate, and if no one does I'll have to do something about It. You got to know what's best for you and if you hesitated at any of those questions he's not the one, do what's Best for you, we need a day to talk and go over things, try to get back to me soon as you can.