Write so that people can relate to you. Consider your audience. I do not put my thoughts on paper, so that i can ease the minds and feed the mouths of the people who can't take my being. I don't need to relate to anyone, because i am enough of a human to move mountains myself. 2. Write so you get all your feelings out and move on. I write to have something to remember my state of mind. Because when my experience has packed up and moved on, how will i relive my puddle jumping, my cigarette burning through your ***** wife beater, my tear stained photographs. 3. Make sure to edit your work for grammar. ********, you're irrelevant if you tell me this