Love is a contradiction without terms. It is often compared to music, but that doesn’t sum it up. It is thought to come from ***, but that is less than a third of it. It is said to come from the heart, but it’s true location is only known to the people suffering under it.
Love is not one thing or another. It is not a thing that fills, nor is it a thing that drives. It is not freshly fallen snow, or the first red leaf of Autumn.
It is pleasure, and it is pain and it is both and neither and all. It is not found in books, or songs, or contact or smiles.
It does not live in a gentle embrace, or a baby’s breath. You can not spot it’s home from the eyes. It is not in these places, it would be a fool’s errand to look for it there.
Love cannot be defined or quantified. It cannot be discovered or hunted. It does not just happen, although it happens all the time.
If you are extremely lucky, and profoundly doomed, you will know it when you know it. Do not cherish it, do not avoid it, accept it. That is all that can be done.