To the drunken slob who tried to get his way with me at a wedding To the pig who called out "Mmm, get a load of that body." And to the total idiots who came into my workplace and hollered "I'll take a cheeseburger, with a side of you." *******, I am not a side order I am the whole ******* meal I will unhinge my shut jaw And swallow you whole With my feminist outcries With my pleas for the reform of a broken body A system in which all the parts are not in tune The arms work against the legs The heart works against the mind The cisgender male works against all else And like all broken things Most do not intend to be sexist Most do not understand that what they are doing Is incapacitating an entire group of people That it is diminishing them to anything but We are not equal Because my body is seen as a play thing My body is seen as something a man can take and toy with My body is seen as parts, but not a whole While his body is composed for him. He lives in a society that teaches him to take, take, take But that society teaches us to give, abide, be good All of which do not work in harmony with each other Because according to this logic I cannot make ****** choices Because mine are made for me. But I cannot give in to the choices he makes for me Or they work against my father's wishes. I am either a **** or a ***** their is no in between When my entire existence is reduced to what a man thinks fit for me So to these men who seek to manipulate, control, and take I am not conforming to society's standards set for me And I am not your side order Or for men to pick and choose the parts they want from me I am my own woman, my own hero I am my own meal.