We all want to fit people into boxes - big boxes, small boxes, green boxes, sometimes wooden boxes or even cake boxes. And then quickly scribble short mental descriptions on the memo pad of the brain to save 3 months of getting to know them.
So when I saw her, sleepy lost eyes, the escorts to a head of black hair, contrasting with light brown skin, it stirred primal curiosity.
She spilled over when I put her in a plastic box. Then she was too springy to fit in the Pringles can. So I tried to fit her in a wooden box, one with wrought iron hinges. But she came out of the bottom.
I have since come to accept that she doesn't fit in any box or receptacle for that matter. That is what tempts you to take a little peek, to look into the depths of her composition: smell her fear, taste her happiness, rub your hands through her shyness to see how they make her eyes look down.
All I know is, when she spends hours talking to you, and brings you thoughtful gifts that create restore points of happiness somewhere in your brain, that is her saying "I like you".
I might never discover the taste of her lips, nor the warmth of her athletic body. But whenever she smiles, pure and innocent, I think of a box, wrapped with shiny blue paper, whose contents are unknown waiting to be opened.