My sister likes to smile and is always positive & passionate. I think that is what the fabrics of her dress are made of. I also think her skin has some Teflon as well to keep her strong from the annoying talkers.
When we were 21 I didn't understand my sister, until I grew up. That was because she had found herself early. And I saw she had a gift from somewhere, which was a natural spark when I took the time to look closely at her eyes.
People of both genders will try to put you in that woman box and talk, because they have no outside view and follow each other.
But, that spark U have my sister is also a fuel that allows you to fly, jump, dance, paint, sing outside that box. And move away to create your own box.
So, my sister just do what U always do by enjoying winning the minutes, hours, days, months, years and that reality will build that beautiful box you're chipping at.