#sisterhood
Girls, we’re in our twenties.
And **** me, it feels like running barefoot through broken glass
laughing so hard we forget we’re bleeding,
faces streaked with makeup and tears,
swearing to the world we’re okay
when every step cuts deeper.
We’re fine.
We’re not fine.
We’re twenty-something.
Girls, we’re in our twenties,
and it’s falling for men who study our bodies
but never learn our names.
It’s whispering “maybe he sees me”
until we’re sick on cheap *****
our best friend dragging our hair out of the way,
shouting,
“He doesn’t see you, babe.
He only sees himself reflected in your shine
and he’s too small to hold the light.”
And we laugh through the tears, because what else is there to do?
It’s midnight secrets and 4 a.m confessions.
It’s shouting “I love you, ***** across sticky club floors
and meaning it more than any man will ever deserve.
It’s kissing girls because we want to,
because maybe we’ve always wanted to,
and hearing the echo of our mother’s voice in our head whispering
“That’s not what good girls do.”
while our own voice screams louder,
“Then maybe I’m not a good girl and thank **** for that.”
Girls, we’re in our twenties.
And families are breaking around us.
Some of us grieve mothers who aren’t dead but act like they are.
Some of us light candles for fathers who never got the chance to grow old.
Some of us have families stitched together with friends,
with women twenty years older who pour us wine and tell us,
“Girlhood never ends, you just learn new ways to carry the scars.”
We hold onto them because they’re the only people who remember the chaos we came from,
the only people who laugh at the same stupid mistakes we keep making,
and when the nights feel endless,
we keep thinking maybe, just maybe, we’ll be okay.
But the thought of thirty is always there,
like a shadow at the edge of the streetlights,
a quiet fear that we’ll wake up one day
and realise all the nights, all the fights, all the reckless magic
were slipping through our fingers while we weren’t looking.
Girls, we’re in our twenties.
It’s shouting at each other until our throats are raw,
storming out of clubs, sending texts and ending phone calls.
Crying in toilets we barely remember,
then finding each other hours later outside kebab shops,
voices cracking, hearts raw,
“I don’t care what happens, you and me, we’re forever. I love you.”
It’s the kind of love that bruises but also saves,
the kind that hurts because it’s real,
the kind that feels more like family than blood ever did.
We grow up in fragments.
pieces of the kids we were still clinging to our sleeves.
The girl who scribbled hearts in her school notebook
now scrolls dating apps at 2 a.m.
The girl who swore she’d never drink
is throwing up tequila in a stranger’s sink.
The girl who dreamed of forever
is learning forever might mean just tonight.
Girls, we’re in our twenties.
And the nights out are both war and worship.
We line our lips in bathroom mirrors,
share tampons with strangers,
cry about dads who never came home,
and sing too loudly to songs we don’t even like
just because it reminds us that we’re alive.
We are half mess, half church hymn.
We are fragile and ******* invincible.
We are learning how to live in a world
that keeps telling us we’re too much and not enough
in the same ******* breath.
And girls,
here’s the thing no one tells you.
Girlhood doesn’t end.
Not when you hit thirty,
not when you have kids,
not when you’ve buried your parents.
Girlhood lingers in the way we hold each other’s faces and whisper,
“you’re beautiful, do you know that?”
In the way we dance barefoot in kitchens,
wine stained and heartbroken,
in the way we promise,
“I’ll love you forever”
and mean it with every fibre of who we are.
Girls, we’re in our twenties.
And we’re lost.
And we’re hopeful.
And we’re ******* magic.
And one day, when we’re older,
we’ll look back and say,
we survived it.
We survived it together.
Mar 9
Mar 9, 2026 at 10:42 AM UTC
My sister-
the heart I have always known,
the first light I saw at birth,
the hand that always finds me
no matter how far I wander.
She returns,
soft as dawn,
first in line in every heartbeat,
the quiet strength behind my every step.
She loves me
with all my cracks and edges,
my tangled thoughts and restless fears.
Her love is pure-
a river that never runs dry,
a gentle tide that lifts me higher.
She is kindness
woven into the fabric of my days,
everything I hold sacred,
the soul I would protect
with all that I am.
Feb 21
Feb 21, 2026 at 9:06 AM UTC
There're ladies who lunch
And ladies who brunch
And ladies who much prefer breakfast
There're ladies who chatter
Who love a good natter
And those who's prayers are infectious
There're ladies who breakfast
In company that precious
Monthly at Haven's Hub
These are ladies who pray
Weekends and weekdays
And you're welcome to join their club
Feb 15
Feb 15, 2026 at 1:49 PM UTC
She smiles anytime a black girl looks at her,
Because she wants her to know that they are one and the same
Because she needs her to feel the support that she never had
She's the black girl that keeps Malcolm X's autobiography tucked under her armpit
And has memorized it word for word for word for word
The black girl that reads Maya Angelou religiously, to make sure she never forgets that she is
Phenomenal Woman, and that it is, “In the stride of my step”
She’s the black girl that keeps her wrists drowning in gold
And her neck swimming in it
So you can hear her bangles jingling from miles away
She keeps her cowrie shell bracelet on because it's her true culture
She's the black girl that smells of cocoa butter
And has skin as smooth as silk,
She is the living embodiment of the word “prosperity”
She’s the black girl that values knowledge like a pacifist values peace
She knows that knowledge is power,
But her blackness is a stronger one.
Dec 24, 2025
Dec 24, 2025 at 9:22 PM UTC
From afar,
I glanced at three souls—
intently, I watched
three sisters,
deep in pure reverence.
Honoring Him,
sold out wholly,
with no ego held back;
they poured out in worship—
a sight
wonderful to behold.
Up close,
I spoke with one whose warmth
drew me in.
Ah…
what sweet presence she carries—
not of her own,
but of His.
Admiring them,
I sensed
He dearly loves them.
As written,
Peter, James, and John—
His beloveds.
Three sisters,
not by blood,
but by worship
to Him.
Their unfiltered surrender
drawing my spirit;
my soul,
my body
aligns
to their fire.
Truly, they blaze—
fanning to flame
the dim embers in me.
With pure love,
my heart glorifies Him.
And as I behold them,
a light ignites within me—
He has His own,
His true soldiers.
Dec 2, 2025
Dec 2, 2025 at 2:52 AM UTC
the two of them, blonde and spitfire,
hollow turquoise blue eyes in the sagebrush,
stormy and unspent
reluctant to grow up
homesick
lost in the washed-out denim skies of our prairie,
heather fields sprawled soft grey forever into the skyline,
it's a grainy stage for a 1970s play about alcoholism,
characters dressed pastel in 1980s hand-me-downs,
production with 1990s debt, the script written in the language of early 2000s anxiety.
always fixin' to do it,
planning and unplanning the thing,
learning to tie bows from stolen fishing line,
whatever we caught was the hill's high ransom
twisting the blade and choking it on its own blood.
absolve me, frilly church clothes
and squeaky-clean pearl snaps,
carried away on the wind rushing by pink ears,
running down long cool tile halls,
the whispers of hushed women at our patent leather heels,
saying something... well,
it must be nice or nothin' at all.
forgive them their ignorance
for not knowing just what they do
pushing our hands to their throats
away from each other
I am listening to you, still singing
mom's scratchy old cassette tape of the truth
playing like a gasp between last breaths:
"we are but sisters"
Nov 4, 2025
Nov 4, 2025 at 5:07 PM UTC
A gem of a sister, you are
Technically though, my aunt you are
But that matters not
Kind to a fault
Sweet as gulab jamun
At times, a strict person
Possessing nerves of steel
Thoroughly trustworthy and dependable
A model wife and mother
On the whole, an extremely lovable character!
A gem of a sister, you are
Anybody and everybody, you care for
Immensely valuable, your counsel
Above all, very cool
Irrespective of the situation
Always thinking "I can!"
A bedrock for the entire family
And finally, rarely unhappy!!
A gem of a sister, you are
So lively, your children are
Of course, mischievous at times
Nevertheless, they bring happiness
Even in times of despair
Hence, bright will be your future!!
A gem of a sister, you are
Dear to me, forever
Well, hope we catch up soon
Do keep that adorable smile on!!
Jul 16, 2025
Jul 16, 2025 at 5:56 AM UTC
A talk with my sister, and something feels right,
She listens so calmly, she softens my night.
She saw all the bruises that covered my skin,
And says she won’t watch me go through that again.
She tells me I’m worthy of peace
and of rest,
That being myself doesn't make me a jest.
No more pretending, stop shrinking to fit-
It's not worth losing love to please others, is it?
And those who don’t like it? Well, let them all go,
She’ll stand right beside me through my highs and lows.
She says I am loved without mask or disguise,
And I realize I could've just been me this whole time.
I don't have to carry, I can ask for assistance without fear of being mocked or met with resistance.
Jul 7, 2025
Jul 7, 2025 at 2:55 PM UTC
My pocket of the world is filled
Of women who know the sound of wisdom on their own tongue
Like stick knows stone like
Honey dripping backwards from the the comb like
Planet knows patience like
Honest-to-Goddess-truth and nothing quieter than that
My heart lives in the home that is Girl and Mother
Wonder and Womb
Made of all that is alive and
Built by sacred hands
And I want to swim to the Moon and call her my sister
Drink wine with Dawn and
Tell her the myth about Eve
Just to hear her tender laugh
Tell her she is what makes the tides turn
Tell her
I belong to Love!
And Love is a woman!
And there has never been anything more beautiful than that!
Jun 13, 2025
Jun 13, 2025 at 9:12 PM UTC
My little sister called me tonight.
Her voice cracked before she even said hello.
She saw the heart I typed,
and thought I was saying goodbye.
She shouldn’t have to live like this—
bracing herself
every time I answer too slowly,
learning to read my silences
like warning signs.
She’s just a kid.
My baby.
The one I used to tuck in
and promise monsters weren’t real.
But now I am the monster.
Not to her.
Never to her.
But to myself.
I am the nightmare she can’t wake up from.
The danger she can’t punch away.
The reason she checks her phone
like it’s a lifeline
and a bomb
at the same time.
And I hate it.
I hate that she’s learning
to live on edge
because of me.
Because I might break
and take her with me.
So maybe—
maybe the kindest thing I could do
is just end it.
Once.
Not again and again
in panicked calls and whispered fears
and “I love you”s that sound too final.
Not in sirens or hospital beds
or birthdays where I couldn’t come.
Just once.
One clean tear through the timeline.
One scream.
One silence.
And then nothing.
She’d cry,
yes.
But she’d stop being afraid.
She wouldn’t have to wonder anymore.
Wouldn’t have to scan my messages
for signs of collapse.
Wouldn’t have to carry
this slow, rotting dread
that her sister might be dying
in a place she can’t reach.
Maybe grief
would be easier than fear.
Maybe heartbreak
would feel like freedom
after years of holding her breath.
I think about that a lot.
How maybe
the kindest thing I could ever do for her
is disappear.
May 31, 2025
May 31, 2025 at 4:32 PM UTC
You're Here
You're here with me
Still there
Even when we are in silence
Even when we are bored
Even when we are sad
Even when we are mad at each other
Even when we fight
Even when we hate each other
You're still here
And I will
Trust me, I will
I will be with you
Forever
And ever
I love you
And I always will
I will love you unconditionally
Apr 10, 2025
Apr 10, 2025 at 11:51 PM UTC
I still remember the way she carried herself
With dignity and respect like she earned it
Her smile ever so infectious
It could turn sad faces into happy ones
From the moment she spoke
Her voice gave way to a gentle nature
As if it could put any crying baby to sleep
I can vividly picture her beauty
The perfect role model she is
Standing in her modest dress
With a natural look on her face
So angelic, so innocent
Her arms covered me in a tight embrace
The feeling of love spilling onto me
A type of euphoric high
The kind you feel when you have a sister
Who protects and cares
A bond that is irreplaceable
By two people who are linked by blood
Their love for each other is that strong
As if I don’t already have that
But with who? And will this love remain forever?
Mar 13, 2025
Mar 13, 2025 at 9:25 PM UTC
I will be back.
She spoke.
Where have you been?
Where did you go?
I wonder.
Mommy, where is my sister?
Daddy, when is she coming back home?
I asked.
Do you know my sister?
She has a name.
I can’t remember it!
What does she look like?
The officers asked.
I’m sorry
I can’t remember
her pretty face.
But she’s kind and sweet— the
best sister on earth!
She said she went to work.
But she never comes back home.
Can I stay with you? I’m scared
you going to leave me
Like she did.
Hey! Sister!
You said you went to work!
Why did it take you so long?
Why is your pulse not beating anymore?
Why your skin looks pale?
Why are you laying there
In that scary chamber?
Mar 6, 2025
Mar 6, 2025 at 10:30 AM UTC
Most things you read are dedicated
To the bride or wife to be,
With everyone and everything
else included,
But I wanted to do something different.
After all, you're a part of this too.
To my almost sister-in-law,
How fun it would have been
To see you and your sister
In the dresses you've always dreamed of wearing, all of us side by side.
Feeding a child, a continuation of
Building the life of your dreams.
Not to say that you won’t,
I just won’t be included in the affair.
That’s fine, just know I think of you both.
If I had my way,
I’d marry your sister and have you
As my sister too.
Someone strong, someone real.
If not for you,
I wouldn’t have these fond memories
Of you and your sister,
Starting at the first night
Where you called my name
And thought I was nice enough
To introduce us, me and your sister.
We’ve always agreed on things,
Not seeing things like most do,
The same old, same old.
If you’re somewhere,
Just taking up space,
Know this is for you
And all the future sisters-in-law.
Not to steal the shine
From the bride to be,
But imagining her at the altar,
With you at her side as maid of honor,
Would've been dope to see.
If you see this,
You both are still part of my life,
And I, hopefully, a part of yours.
I sit idle,
Taking up space,
Thinking of you both,
Writing something for sisters
And soon to be sister in laws
To read as a toast,
Then smile at the bride.
If they can't think of something
silly to say.
If by chance you come across this
And that is the case.
Here is something to toast to
Dec 5, 2024
Dec 5, 2024 at 1:53 AM UTC
i wish to not relive
a life, so lonely,
alone and stalling
without a sister
my sister
Oct 28, 2024
Oct 28, 2024 at 11:18 PM UTC
They say the ties that bind, wither towards the end
Their witty mottos downplay the love of a friend
“The blood of the covenant,” the adage remains still frozen,
“Flows much thicker than the water of the womb.”
And therefore they deduce: our loyalties reduce
And family only matters when it is chosen.
But the blood relations between man’s nations
Groan under the strain of their bond
For who would have thought that brothers were not
By long and far man’s best creation.
Oct 2, 2022
Oct 2, 2022 at 12:56 PM UTC
Wearing comfortable clothing is what I desire
And if that is a purple g-string with a pair of high rise low cut shorts
You best say "good morning"
And if that is a pair of bell bottom jeans that do not press tight
against my hips with a long sleeve pink sweater
You ought to say “good afternoon”
If I please sugar in my coffee or no
coffee but instead a warm swif of chamomile
tea you best hand me the cup and show
brotherly love to your sister
If in my womb a child grows or I decide
It does not grow
You ought to stand by me but you best
leave that choice to me
Dec 29, 2021
Dec 29, 2021 at 9:34 AM UTC
Rough around the edges she's a ravenous piece,
Capturing light and reflecting elegance at every turn,
Raw to the core her wit is unmatched by trivial mineral composition,
She's a gemstone to cherish,
A glory to salute,
A sister worth a thousand leagues beyond that of this realm,
An emerald in our wake.
Apr 27, 2021
Apr 27, 2021 at 12:02 PM UTC
To be a woman is to be creation itself,
at the heart of the world.
The hidden, shared laughter between mother and daughter.
The audacity and bravery to prevail,
and the low, licking flame of ambition.
Hands of friends firmly clasped and
shoulders open for tired hearts and minds.
Knowing smiles on knowing faces.
To be a woman is to be magic.
It is setting ablaze the world as people stop and stare
and wonder.
Oh, how they wonder.
Jan 10, 2021
Jan 10, 2021 at 4:16 PM UTC
She was a woman,
Inside a woman,
Inside a woman
The female definition of sisterhood
Emanating from her,
An aura of arduous existence
Of suffrage meeting resistance
She was bent over in lamentable labour
Bearing the weight of the world on her shoulders
Forgetting what men had tried to tell her
That she was an object to be sold and squandered
Through ever contentious contraction
She cried out in excruciating passion
But by the end of it all
She held in her hands
A creation of truth
That no man
Could truly understand
Oct 15, 2020
Oct 15, 2020 at 7:30 AM UTC
wholesome love sits here
in the many "may's"
in the hope for what can be cultivated
and in the hope of what can come about
in the staircase of thoughts
and in the apex of
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/ elf \ \ lo- / / elf \
/ - \ \ve/ / -acce \
/ value \ \/ / ptance \
stacked up against each other in the form a trapezoid
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we share mantras her and I, sisterly maneuvering through this life
"We want to feel better" & "we want to be better",
...and so we set about finding the right equations
stacking meditations upon visioning upon affirmations upon counseling upon books of poetry, and teary-eyed artworks that carry our twisted knots that do not undo with words or the spitting out of crunched up syllables onto the ground
so we make shapes, some geometrical like the ones above
Jul 18, 2020
Jul 18, 2020 at 3:54 AM UTC
Her.
“Good Morning gorgeous”
echoes down the hall
her voice altered
into a decibel
that she created
a clear tone only meant
to the one who knows
I have looked at her for 27 years
and counting, I witnessed growth
naturally aligned with her stars
never gone astray
with a mind for a compass
a heart to balance and a body to embrace
those who need
Her strength bewitched me
from mishaps to miracles
her legs never failed her
from tree climbing to moving houses
from cartwheels to driving in foggy weather
Her courage moved me
from enduring unfairness
to teaching about fairness
her rationale calmed me
and it was when she carried her baby
that I felt mother nature adopt her into motherhood
blessing her with power unknown to man
with endurance with love, with intensified
fountains of love, waterfalling everyday
every night into her baby’s heart
filling her with a glow only she knows how to grow
I saw her in a different light
with her own world between her arms
marveling at the strength that body has
to carry and nourish
She has become a mother
even though from time to time
I still steal a glance at the sister I knew
but I, now, am the proud sister of a mother.
Dec 23, 2019
Dec 23, 2019 at 5:43 AM UTC