#girlchild
I’m sorry, sister.
I watched as mama
took your hand
and placed it in his.
There was nothing I could do.
The same fate waits for me—
bound like roots,
tethered to a tree.
I am a broken calabash,
my dreams scattered
like soil after harvest.
Does a girl need a man
to make her dreams come true?
A girl is a matchstick—
she can spark alone.
Yet without marriage,
society calls her
a violin without strings.
She traded me like sand
for a gem.
I wept
as I held his arm.
Feb 2
Feb 2, 2026 at 2:13 PM UTC
The dark hours she spent,
Staring at the family photograph,
Smiling at the familiar faces,
Craving for the good old laughs.
“I’m there in the middle”,
Whispered a marred heart,
Those faces were so captivating,
The picture was a fine art.
Her lonely gaze deepened,
As the reality emerged strong,
The child in her was fooled,
But she couldn’t hold long.
Her mother’s love had scarred her,
The tender touch was savage,
Her father was a REAL man,
but his daughter was born damaged.
Her body was a masterpiece,
Engraved with words of gold,
But those carved by her family,
Ran deeper through her soul.
Finally, one blessed night,
She fell numb under the moonlight,
Carelessly dreaming of love,
Leaving the collapsed body behind.
Just then, a thought pierced my mind,
Will they ever try to find?
The child from the photograph,
Who went missing one night?
Jun 19, 2019
Jun 19, 2019 at 6:49 AM UTC
And then comes the baby cry
Once again mother lost the relief of sigh
Dad was waiting outside to see
Holding in hands the housekey
He was tired and hoping to relax
Wanted someone to hold his axe
He was unaware of the approaching future that lie
A girl to be a weight or a boy to touch the sky
Alas! it's a girl told the doctor
Dad was all ready to give baby and this news shocked her
"That's my baby", pleaded the mother
But dad couldn't hear it because it was just a mutter
The mentality is all what needs to be changed
Right from the beliefs and the notions that have framed
'Acceptance' is what will drive the thought
We all should protect her and antis should be fought
She is a grace and she is fire
Let's make this place where she needs to be admire
Make her life just like a moon
Where SHE will never feel,"Oh god! I born too soon!".
May 5, 2019
May 5, 2019 at 9:29 AM UTC
Fall seems the season for forgiveness,
But I am the only benevolent by heart,
Who reflected a privilege despite not being a son.
So for mothers with a purpose in their hearts-
There’s more than a name just pronounced,
Leave your daughters with an abundance of deliverance,
Maybe they’ll learn to build their own homes with it,
and survive in it.
Jan 12, 2019
Jan 12, 2019 at 8:42 AM UTC
A young girl was tied in the knots of a HOLY SIN.
Who looks happy from outside having grief within.
She was struggling with her life & was just hit by puberty.
Her parents had to do this unwillingly as they're struck by poverty.
But they didn't know that their girl was better than a boy.
She could've pulled them out of poverty if they would've kept her with joy.
She should be given a chance to grow and flourish.
But now, at the age of her own growth she may have a child to nourish.
We'll say we're living in 21st century and we're MODERN.
But actually we've never developed enough and are still downtrodden.
We must stop this ill-practice in our society.
Every child has a right to live his/her life given by the almighty.
Apr 6, 2018
Apr 6, 2018 at 8:14 AM UTC
I am a woman and there are many of our breed,
some like to be out partying but some like to stay in and read,
Some break into arguments others like to leave words unsaid
Some have a legion of friends others like to be alone
But at the end we are all queens of our throne.
At the end of the day, we all bleed when cut
Cry when hurt,
When nervous, have a feeling in our gut.
So why treat us as inferior,
Creating an unreasonable barrier
Treat us with motives ulterior.
Before you act, stop and think about your mother, sister, daughter
Would you be comfortable if this was done to her
I fail to wonder how some of your thoughts occur
I am a victim of **** and I know how if feels,
It takes time before it heals,
Its feels like your life is stuck on its wheels
And it even hurts me more that apart from me there are many more ordeals
It's time we raise our voice,
This is not a request or a choice,
Jan 21, 2018
Jan 21, 2018 at 4:24 PM UTC
Long before she was born
The balance, the societal scale,
The ground upon which her wobbly feet
Will learn to stand upright and walk steady
Had been socially disintegrated.
Arms with which her clay mind
Is to be molded and framed
Had been morally fractured.
The ‘responsible majority'
Saddled with the making of serious decisions
Had decided against her-
The minor, with fewer rights
And a body like hers-
Double jeopardy, I will say.
The verdict always the same,
Unanimous more often than not
Guilty!! Is the girl child;
If she grows too fast
Or he touches her inappropriately.
So she learns from her early days
The skill of helplessness
All through the pain and the shame
For it is always her fault
Always has been
Long before she arrived
©Belema .S. Ekine
Oct 13, 2017
Oct 13, 2017 at 7:07 AM UTC
I never got the chance,
To see the outside world,
Since I was sacrificed,
For the honor of my family.
I sleep on the floor,
Right next to dogs,
I eat from the floor,
Just like a dog,
But I work for, a very honorable family.
My mother-in-law is loving,
She wants the best for me,
A daughter as a child would be bad right?
Us, being a family with honor and pride.
I was violated,
But my life was complete,
I married him,
The honor of the family wasn't tarnished at-least.
I don't want to marry,
My heart lies among the paints and brushes,
I shall marry,
My mind knows unmarried girls bring taints and shushes.
My brother gets home by 3am,
Me, 10 hours earlier,
My dreams, my life, my need for freedom?
These don't bring honor to the family.
My aunt died,
I will too,
My husband passed away,
Awaiting me are flames that flare and sway.
Our lives are a necessary sacrifice,
Our families should live, with honor and pride.
Apr 4, 2017
Apr 4, 2017 at 11:50 AM UTC
'Let her fly;
High into the sky.
Let her spread her wings,
And hum the songs which she loves to sing.
Let her see the world wide and clear;
Let her demolish all her fear.
Let her be the light that surrounds the world,
And have that royal air that melts people away with the wave of her curl.
Let her be one of a kind;
Let her be the girl that shines.
She will be the star of everyone's eye;
For that let her over come her cover of shy.
Finally let her go;
And never let her touch that ground low.
Oct 1, 2016
Oct 1, 2016 at 3:25 PM UTC
She's an innocent little girl
Unknown about the people in this world
Who think it's a curse that she is born.
It's nothing to do with her but with her gender.
She has to suffer because she's her.
She grows up while listening to those painful words
By the voices of herds.
Those words which struck her like a bullet inside her heart
Now it's broken so much, it can't be mended even if we try hard.
This is not what she wants
But she's dumbfound like a mime,
Stuck inside, bounded by walls
Walking inside the empty halls.
She screams but no one hears
She wails but no one cares.
There's no one here who feels her pain anymore
As people ignore.
It's a curse that she is born even if she did nothing bad at all.
She has nothing else to do
But to dream about another universe,
Where people are one,
Where there's no boy or girl
That's what she thinks is a world.
But that's not true,
It's sad to say:
She is a curse in every way.
Why would they hurt such beauty and charm
When they do so,
She is so calm.
She has wings
Which are broken now
And it stings
If she tries to fly.
But still try,
You are not alone.
Dec 26, 2014
Dec 26, 2014 at 9:38 AM UTC