#diffuse - Hello Poetry

It is not unusual that at some point in our lives we will have to deal with a tense encounter where words will be exchanged in an environment of anger with others. Usually there is one person who is in less control of himself and poses a greater risk to harm the other. How do you defuse the situation? How do you calm someone who is angry? First, talk with a low calm voice. Secondly, show them your white teeth (smile), if possible. And don't look them directly in the face. These three suggestions are predicated on the fact that they are all non-engaging and have a tendency to calm or reduce tension from the aggravated party. It all starts by using the wrong words, or the right words interpreted the wrong way by the offended party. This escalates potentially becoming a provocation by someone who is incensed or upset over a matter. Angry words then usually follow. Depending on how you handle things, will determine whether you succeed to defuse the situation or not. And sometimes, just sometimes, friendship regains that upper hand. This is the best case scenario which everyone could only want. I tried to capture all this with a short Haiku that now follows: **a word, provoking angry words are now exchanged smiles come, peace remains** As an interesting afterthought, a person once shared with me his unusual approach he himself uses to avoid getting angry. He told me whenever he feels that he is about to get angry he forces himself to laugh uncontrollably and loud that his anger not "take control of Him." He said it works. I am fortunately happy to tell you have never had a chance to test his system out.

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Jul 28, 2015

Jul 28, 2015 at 4:05 PM UTC

2bpositive

How To Defuse An Angry Confrontation -Haiku Poetry

It is not unusual that at some point in our lives we will have to deal with a tense encounter where words will be exchanged in an environment of anger with others. Usually there is one person who is in less control of himself and poses a greater risk to harm the other. How do you defuse the situation? How do you calm someone who is angry? First, talk with a low calm voice. Secondly, show them your white teeth (smile), if possible. And don't look them directly in the face. These three suggestions are predicated on the fact that they are all non-engaging and have a tendency to calm or reduce tension from the aggravated party. It all starts by using the wrong words, or the right words interpreted the wrong way by the offended party. This escalates potentially becoming a provocation by someone who is incensed or upset over a matter. Angry words then usually follow. Depending on how you handle things, will determine whether you succeed to defuse the situation or not. And sometimes, just sometimes, friendship regains that upper hand. This is the best case scenario which everyone could only want. I tried to capture all this with a short Haiku that now follows: **a word, provoking angry words are now exchanged smiles come, peace remains** As an interesting afterthought, a person once shared with me his unusual approach he himself uses to avoid getting angry. He told me whenever he feels that he is about to get angry he forces himself to laugh uncontrollably and loud that his anger not "take control of Him." He said it works. I am fortunately happy to tell you have never had a chance to test his system out.

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I refuse to diffuse myself I refuse to refuse myself of these bubbling feelings you brought me to a boil you tried to be my character foil scrub and rub myself clean of your imprinted kisses but my mind is still tattooed by all your smooth moves I was too naive and you were too cool made me question my reality, made me lessen my sexuality walking the line for someone again like the fool

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Jan 29, 2022

Jan 29, 2022 at 9:17 AM UTC

munybee

the fool

I refuse to diffuse myself I refuse to refuse myself of these bubbling feelings you brought me to a boil you tried to be my character foil scrub and rub myself clean of your imprinted kisses but my mind is still tattooed by all your smooth moves I was too naive and you were too cool made me question my reality, made me lessen my sexuality walking the line for someone again like the fool

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the brightest white is a thin layer of clouds spread across the sky thick enough to warp the sunlight behind all that has shape and color diffused

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Jun 25, 2020

Jun 25, 2020 at 10:22 AM UTC

latin

brightest white

the brightest white is a thin layer of clouds spread across the sky thick enough to warp the sunlight behind all that has shape and color diffused

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