You know how it is,
the lady tells me,
Growing up with five siblings
In South Philly
The look in her eyes,
mistrust and scorn,
tells me that she doesn't believe me.
I tell her,
Growing up in a third world country,
where you only eat once a day,
where you get electricity for two hours max,
running water even less,
where everything is an unaffordable luxury
You know how it is?
Living in a one room apartment
cohabited by cockroaches,
married by age 16,
dead by age 30,
You know how it is?
Being homeless for so long
that clothes are literally
sewn into skin
You know how it is?
But I don't.
How it is is not a competition,
not a sick, perverse way to measure
who hurts the most, whose life
represents disaster best.
I nod.
It is how.
Aug 7, 2014
Aug 7, 2014 at 8:58 PM UTC
You know how it is,
the lady tells me,
Growing up with five siblings
In South Philly
The look in her eyes,
mistrust and scorn,
tells me that she doesn't believe me.
I tell her,
Growing up in a third world country,
where you only eat once a day,
where you get electricity for two hours max,
running water even less,
where everything is an unaffordable luxury
You know how it is?
Living in a one room apartment
cohabited by cockroaches,
married by age 16,
dead by age 30,
You know how it is?
Being homeless for so long
that clothes are literally
sewn into skin
You know how it is?
But I don't.
How it is is not a competition,
not a sick, perverse way to measure
who hurts the most, whose life
represents disaster best.
I nod.
It is how.
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