We are our parents' children
deep down inside
we inherit their DNA and mannerisms
And the rules that they abide
As children we watch closely
to what they say and do
We soak it up, the good and bad
Each behavior we curiously view
So if one's mother is gentle and kind
Then one shall almost surely be
But if she is cruel and fickle and rude
Then these traits unfortunately we may see
And if one's father patient and steady
Then one truly has a shot
But if he is angry or hateful or harsh
Then these things will one be taught
Oft I have wondered of my own life
And who I'll turn out to be
Will my own generational trauma continue
Or will it end with me?
Mar 5, 2025
Mar 5, 2025 at 4:11 PM UTC
We are our parents' children
deep down inside
we inherit their DNA and mannerisms
And the rules that they abide
As children we watch closely
to what they say and do
We soak it up, the good and bad
Each behavior we curiously view
So if one's mother is gentle and kind
Then one shall almost surely be
But if she is cruel and fickle and rude
Then these traits unfortunately we may see
And if one's father patient and steady
Then one truly has a shot
But if he is angry or hateful or harsh
Then these things will one be taught
Oft I have wondered of my own life
And who I'll turn out to be
Will my own generational trauma continue
Or will it end with me?
Spending time with my grandparents helps me to understand a bit more why my mother is the way she is.
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