i didn't understand half
the words he said
and i don't understand half
the words you write
michael jackson
and waylon jennings
wrapped in a paper towel
"papa would be proud of you"
scratched in the back of
a children's book
it's the oddest thing
to no longer miss
someone who's been
gone so long
an odder thing to sit
in silence on your bed
with the fitted sheet all pulled
off the side next to the wall
feeling your best friend's
little sister's scratchy blue
nylon mattress rub
up against your sore feet
and open card
after card
after card
filled with glittering
words of praise and
monetary gifts
and then read about all
the things about you
that people think are
worthy of mentioning
and you start to
see a pattern
"thank you for serving"
"humor"
"creativity"
"imagination"
"let God lead you"
"keep rapping"
(thank you
and by the way
i don't rap only
occasionally slam)
it starts to feel like a
bulletpoint hallmark eulogy
like you've left your body
and are reading about someone else
reviewing all the better
more visible parts of yourself
the parts deemed loud
enough to be acknowledged.
and you start to see
what's lurking off
the edge of the card
and the words they didn't write
the places that you
went wrong
the question marks
behind their eyes
wondering why they
haven't seen you for two months
why your hair is a different color
why someone else is in your seat
and the semicolons in
your stomach
when you realize that
you've made a mistake
and even with all the hurts caused
you've still got a family out there.
i'll say this
when it comes to
graduations and funerals
you find out who your friends are
the people who matter
will show up in the end.
am i mislead in thinking
that sometimes people
don't say everything they
think or feel until it's too
late because it takes a
loss to make them realize?
Aug 17, 2016
Aug 17, 2016 at 7:36 PM UTC
i didn't understand half
the words he said
and i don't understand half
the words you write
michael jackson
and waylon jennings
wrapped in a paper towel
"papa would be proud of you"
scratched in the back of
a children's book
it's the oddest thing
to no longer miss
someone who's been
gone so long
an odder thing to sit
in silence on your bed
with the fitted sheet all pulled
off the side next to the wall
feeling your best friend's
little sister's scratchy blue
nylon mattress rub
up against your sore feet
and open card
after card
after card
filled with glittering
words of praise and
monetary gifts
and then read about all
the things about you
that people think are
worthy of mentioning
and you start to
see a pattern
"thank you for serving"
"humor"
"creativity"
"imagination"
"let God lead you"
"keep rapping"
(thank you
and by the way
i don't rap only
occasionally slam)
it starts to feel like a
bulletpoint hallmark eulogy
like you've left your body
and are reading about someone else
reviewing all the better
more visible parts of yourself
the parts deemed loud
enough to be acknowledged.
and you start to see
what's lurking off
the edge of the card
and the words they didn't write
the places that you
went wrong
the question marks
behind their eyes
wondering why they
haven't seen you for two months
why your hair is a different color
why someone else is in your seat
and the semicolons in
your stomach
when you realize that
you've made a mistake
and even with all the hurts caused
you've still got a family out there.
i'll say this
when it comes to
graduations and funerals
you find out who your friends are
the people who matter
will show up in the end.
am i mislead in thinking
that sometimes people
don't say everything they
think or feel until it's too
late because it takes a
loss to make them realize?
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