I learned how to give
before I ever learned
how to ask.
A little more patience.
A little more understanding.
A little more of myself
each time someone reached out
with empty hands.
And I never questioned it.
I poured kindness
like water from a pitcher
that everyone assumed
would never run dry.
I listened
when no one else would.
I stayed
when others walked away.
I carried burdens
that were never mine
simply because
someone needed somewhere
to set them down.
And every time
I told myself
that eventually
someone would notice.
Eventually
someone would say
“You’ve given enough.
Let me carry something for you.”
But the strange thing
about people
who give without hesitation
is that the world
quickly learns
to expect it.
They begin to see you
not as a person
but as a resource.
A quiet place to rest.
A shoulder already waiting.
A heart already open.
And so the giving continues.
And continues.
And continues.
Until one day
you realize
your hands are empty
not because you had nothing
but because you gave
everything away.
And when you finally pause.
finally look around
to see who might pour
something back into you,
the room is quiet.
Because everyone
was used to the well
filling itself.
Mar 14
Mar 14, 2026 at 10:42 PM UTC
I learned how to give
before I ever learned
how to ask.
A little more patience.
A little more understanding.
A little more of myself
each time someone reached out
with empty hands.
And I never questioned it.
I poured kindness
like water from a pitcher
that everyone assumed
would never run dry.
I listened
when no one else would.
I stayed
when others walked away.
I carried burdens
that were never mine
simply because
someone needed somewhere
to set them down.
And every time
I told myself
that eventually
someone would notice.
Eventually
someone would say
“You’ve given enough.
Let me carry something for you.”
But the strange thing
about people
who give without hesitation
is that the world
quickly learns
to expect it.
They begin to see you
not as a person
but as a resource.
A quiet place to rest.
A shoulder already waiting.
A heart already open.
And so the giving continues.
And continues.
And continues.
Until one day
you realize
your hands are empty
not because you had nothing
but because you gave
everything away.
And when you finally pause.
finally look around
to see who might pour
something back into you,
the room is quiet.
Because everyone
was used to the well
filling itself.