Once upon a time there was a girl
and the girl was ...
the girl was...
okay so,
she just was okay..
she just was
(i am not sure)
and she met a ... man?
he was a man but not an ordinary man.
he was ...
he was.....
loud and dangerous and kind
(only sometimes)
and he broke things.
(hearts,flowers,wooden doors,promises,
the virginity of girls)
But she didn't know that because, he was ... deceiving
(and just out of prison)
and utterly charming and 10 years older...
(but he wasn't like this every day, just most of them)
she was a child (15)
but he did love her
and she did believe him.
But then...
she was also in love with him
because she was
(after many years, co-dependent)
And from day one,
he would twist her words and make her feel
like she was going crazy
(she knew this because, this is what he told her she was)
And he would get angry and use his fists
and his voice to control her.
Also i forgot to tell you.
Her older brother used to look
in the crack of her bedroom door and watch her.
One day he asked her if he could touch her.
She was was 10
but she said no a lot of times before he believed her.
When her mum came up to say goodnight,
she was crying
(the girl)
and she told her Mum what had happened
The mum made the brother come in
and say sorry
and give the girl a hug
and to say sorry...
other things happened over the years that were creepy
(as ****
including a handsy uncle
and a inappropriate series of
touching and kissing
from an older male house guest
who stayed until he got his own place.
The brother continued to 'watch'
So anyway,
the girl was under no illusion that
she was not to ask for things to be normal
and for things to not happen to her
that she didn't like
and to ask for her boundaries to be respected,
it was not something you just asked for
or expected...
so she stopped doing that and was silent instead
and stopped eating
and had anxiety and panic attacks
but she was told
she was not allowed to have them either,
so she turned inside herself
and stayed there
where in the corner of her mind,
in a very small room,
where only flowers grow
and the sun shines
and the sky was blue
she was safe.
So they got married.
Because that life was better than the brother/uncle/guest traumas
and she was girl who was scared
and co-dependent and wishing things
were going to be better one day.
And she was quite sure he
(her now husband)
would sleep
with other people
because some nights
he would not come home
and he would be angry
when she would ask why,
and he would say...
because she didn't give him
(as much ***
as he deserved
so it would be her fault if he went elsewhere
(he said he had not but, if he had, it would have been her fault)
so she didn't ask anymore
because he would throw things at her
he would throw things from around the house
(an iron, a handful of coins, pliers, a hammer, his fists, lies, spiteful and cruel words)
All of them she remembered forever
So he closed her eyes and instead
she could only see through his eyes
just how stupid she was.
And how wrong and broken and twisted
she was.
And because she was wrong and broken and twisted,
she had no right
to ask for kindness.
or to ask for help.
Or to ask that
he touch softly
instead of like a creature
who did not care
for 18 years.
and then perchance
she watched a program on the telly
how people were in prison
for doing the things he had done
but they were normal
Right?
these things were normal for her
She was lucky he didn't hit harder
do all the things he did... More
and on the telly, they said that,
she was one of the people
who were...
Lucky to be alive
And she cried
and she was happy that she had found out
that she was lucky to be alive.
(not the end)
Apr 19, 2023
Apr 19, 2023 at 9:33 AM UTC
Once upon a time there was a girl
and the girl was ...
the girl was...
okay so,
she just was okay..
she just was
(i am not sure)
and she met a ... man?
he was a man but not an ordinary man.
he was ...
he was.....
loud and dangerous and kind
(only sometimes)
and he broke things.
(hearts,flowers,wooden doors,promises,
the virginity of girls)
But she didn't know that because, he was ... deceiving
(and just out of prison)
and utterly charming and 10 years older...
(but he wasn't like this every day, just most of them)
she was a child (15)
but he did love her
and she did believe him.
But then...
she was also in love with him
because she was
(after many years, co-dependent)
And from day one,
he would twist her words and make her feel
like she was going crazy
(she knew this because, this is what he told her she was)
And he would get angry and use his fists
and his voice to control her.
Also i forgot to tell you.
Her older brother used to look
in the crack of her bedroom door and watch her.
One day he asked her if he could touch her.
She was was 10
but she said no a lot of times before he believed her.
When her mum came up to say goodnight,
she was crying
(the girl)
and she told her Mum what had happened
The mum made the brother come in
and say sorry
and give the girl a hug
and to say sorry...
other things happened over the years that were creepy
(as ****
including a handsy uncle
and a inappropriate series of
touching and kissing
from an older male house guest
who stayed until he got his own place.
The brother continued to 'watch'
So anyway,
the girl was under no illusion that
she was not to ask for things to be normal
and for things to not happen to her
that she didn't like
and to ask for her boundaries to be respected,
it was not something you just asked for
or expected...
so she stopped doing that and was silent instead
and stopped eating
and had anxiety and panic attacks
but she was told
she was not allowed to have them either,
so she turned inside herself
and stayed there
where in the corner of her mind,
in a very small room,
where only flowers grow
and the sun shines
and the sky was blue
she was safe.
So they got married.
Because that life was better than the brother/uncle/guest traumas
and she was girl who was scared
and co-dependent and wishing things
were going to be better one day.
And she was quite sure he
(her now husband)
would sleep
with other people
because some nights
he would not come home
and he would be angry
when she would ask why,
and he would say...
because she didn't give him
(as much ***
as he deserved
so it would be her fault if he went elsewhere
(he said he had not but, if he had, it would have been her fault)
so she didn't ask anymore
because he would throw things at her
he would throw things from around the house
(an iron, a handful of coins, pliers, a hammer, his fists, lies, spiteful and cruel words)
All of them she remembered forever
So he closed her eyes and instead
she could only see through his eyes
just how stupid she was.
And how wrong and broken and twisted
she was.
And because she was wrong and broken and twisted,
she had no right
to ask for kindness.
or to ask for help.
Or to ask that
he touch softly
instead of like a creature
who did not care
for 18 years.
and then perchance
she watched a program on the telly
how people were in prison
for doing the things he had done
but they were normal
Right?
these things were normal for her
She was lucky he didn't hit harder
do all the things he did... More
and on the telly, they said that,
she was one of the people
who were...
Lucky to be alive
And she cried
and she was happy that she had found out
that she was lucky to be alive.
(not the end)
