I looked downward at the roundedness of my stomach and flatness of my bottom. I spent years begging the two to trade places. I prayed to gods I don't believe in and pleaded to the mirror to make this change, for the sake of my joy. For the sake of my sanity. all the countless hours I spent staring at my reflection came to nothing. Joy was elsewhere - and I hadn't left my image-obsessed self to find it. I'm certain there will always be days of discomfort wars rarely end without injury. Sometimes I hold hot tea at the base of my belly to remind myself that all things deserve warmth.