If you feel the need to demand respect it means giving some of my own self respect It means you don't respect yourself so in order to make you happy you ask me to respect you If I give you pieces of my self respect that you can use to feel respected, it will only serve to hurt you and us because it's hollow this way. It will never satisfy that deep need for self respect. Only the self can do that I can respect you without having to respect your own personal issues and insecurities I think somewhere in our society respect has been twisted to the point that the people demanding it don't understand that what they really want is to be obeyed. That is what demanding respect does If you demand it then it isn't respect at all It is everything but respect