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We were both love. I was a rose and you were a snowflake. Both beautiful and gentle but unable to coexist effectively because flowers can’t blossom in the cold. Yet when it ended, the truth became misconstrued. Suddenly I was a thorn that pricked you till you bled. And you were frostbite that nipped away at my skin. We created false portrayals of each other to make this all a bit easier to deal with. But the truth will always stay. We were both beauty, purity, fragility, love. We just weren’t meant to give our love to each other. And now we both bleed, because the hardest part is accepting we were never meant to be.
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Aug 8, 2018
Aug 8, 2018 at 2:46 PM UTC
Opposites don’t attract.
To the teachers who never really cared and ignored my problems; To my fellow ***** “misfits”, etc. Who will no doubt receive more abuse upon my passing, as my tormentors will no longer have me to push around; To those who never cared, never spoke, probably never knew my name; To the one true friend, whose caring was the only thing that prevented this event from happening sooner; To the God, if he does exist, who chose to play a cruel, cruel joke on me when he placed me where he did and surrounded me with so many uncaring faces; What about my teachers? Will they be sorry to see another student become a statistic? Certainly the administration and Principal will mourn, as my death will not reflect well on them as an institution. Well, I apologize for making the statistics for your administration worse. But I don’t expect an apology for the false sympathies of people. As for my fellow students, those who made a more significant impact on my life, I know better than to expect my tormentors to mourn. There’s another group I have not yet addressed: those not like me who left me alone. Or should I say ignored me. I appreciate you sparing me any further harassment, but your inaction, your withheld hellos and how are you’s  did more hurt than any name calling. Your inaction effectively excluded me from student life, from the human race. You left me isolated and alone, and no words I could say can convey to you the suffering you caused. I could name names, but in doing so, I would do more now for you than you ever did for me in life. I do not know what awaits me when I get down off this rope. Will there be a void? Or will I come face to face with God? I just don’t care anymore. If you’re anything like your people, I wouldn’t want to know you. You preached to love one another, yet I’ve felt everything except love from Christians. Even if I knew you were different, well, I'd still reject you. You have left your “followers” to treat people like me poorly. You have allowed so many of the people you “love”, including me, to suffer. So you want me to trust you with my life? I don’t want to spend eternity with a careless deity like you, or with the company you keep. I’m trying to watch TV but I don’t know what I’m watching. It’s so lonely here. I want to sleep but it just won’t come. I’m so tired of hurting and being alone. I hope that with my death, there'll be a wider awareness for child abuse and the effects it could have on a person. That's the only wish I have right now. A lot of people will be hurt with my passing, disappointed even, or maybe it won't matter. But I'd like to believe, no matter how much of a ****** up person I am, I died for a cause greater and bigger than myself. That's the only consolation that I have right now. So that’s it. That’s me. Leaving the world to be a better place. Goodbye - T © Copyright Tyler Atherton
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Sep 23, 2018
Sep 23, 2018 at 6:41 AM UTC
My Suicide Note
To the teachers who never really cared and ignored my problems; To my fellow ***** “misfits”, etc. Who will no doubt receive more abuse upon my passing, as my tormentors will no longer have me to push around; To those who never cared, never spoke, probably never knew my name; To the one true friend, whose caring was the only thing that prevented this event from happening sooner; To the God, if he does exist, who chose to play a cruel, cruel joke on me when he placed me where he did and surrounded me with so many uncaring faces; What about my teachers? Will they be sorry to see another student become a statistic? Certainly the administration and Principal will mourn, as my death will not reflect well on them as an institution. Well, I apologize for making the statistics for your administration worse. But I don’t expect an apology for the false sympathies of people. As for my fellow students, those who made a more significant impact on my life, I know better than to expect my tormentors to mourn. There’s another group I have not yet addressed: those not like me who left me alone. Or should I say ignored me. I appreciate you sparing me any further harassment, but your inaction, your withheld hellos and how are you’s  did more hurt than any name calling. Your inaction effectively excluded me from student life, from the human race. You left me isolated and alone, and no words I could say can convey to you the suffering you caused. I could name names, but in doing so, I would do more now for you than you ever did for me in life. I do not know what awaits me when I get down off this rope. Will there be a void? Or will I come face to face with God? I just don’t care anymore. If you’re anything like your people, I wouldn’t want to know you. You preached to love one another, yet I’ve felt everything except love from Christians. Even if I knew you were different, well, I'd still reject you. You have left your “followers” to treat people like me poorly. You have allowed so many of the people you “love”, including me, to suffer. So you want me to trust you with my life? I don’t want to spend eternity with a careless deity like you, or with the company you keep. I’m trying to watch TV but I don’t know what I’m watching. It’s so lonely here. I want to sleep but it just won’t come. I’m so tired of hurting and being alone. I hope that with my death, there'll be a wider awareness for child abuse and the effects it could have on a person. That's the only wish I have right now. A lot of people will be hurt with my passing, disappointed even, or maybe it won't matter. But I'd like to believe, no matter how much of a ****** up person I am, I died for a cause greater and bigger than myself. That's the only consolation that I have right now. So that’s it. That’s me. Leaving the world to be a better place. Goodbye - T © Copyright Tyler Atherton
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The stewardship of talent calls attention for everyone to discover their purpose on earth, knowing we are created with potentials waiting to be maximized. The stewardship of time calls attention for everyone to maximize their time on earth, knowing we are mandated to dominate and subdue the earth. Nothing is found except it is hidden, every one has a talent. Nothing is hidden except it is a secret, every person has a gift. Nothing is a secret except it is a treasure, every individual has a potential. Every one has a secret hidden treasure to be found, ln them lives unique talents waiting to be discovered; lf only they can discover their purpose on earth. Every person has a destined mission to accomplish, ln them lives voices waiting to be heard; lf only they can activate their gifts. Every individual has a solution to provide on earth, ln them lives great potentials waiting to be maximized; lf only they can exploit their potentials. How then can talents be discovered knowing that any talent wasted will be accounted for. How then can gifts be activated knowing that we are mandated by God to accomplish a purpose on earth. How then can potentials be maximized knowing that we are created to impact our generation. Let him that seek to discover and utilize his talents on earth consult God through prayers. Let him that seek to activate his gifts exploit God's given innate ability to man. Let him that seek to maximize his potentials on earth search the mind of God through the scriptures. Is there any reward for discovering and exploiting your talents? Is there any reward for activating your innate gifts? Is there any reward for maximizing your God given potentials? He that discovers and exploits his talents for God will receive the Masters reward. He that activates his innate gifts will be remembered forever. He that maximizes his potentials will leave an indelible footstep on earth. Hope you strive to be persistent and consistent in the stewardship of talent, knowing that much is required of you. Endeavour to be faithful and obedient in your stewardship of talent, knowing we all owe God the accountability of our talents. Ensure you exploit the discovery of your talents, activate your innate gifts and maximize your potentials effectively. Strive to discover your purpose on earth, Seek to activate your talents and gifts; and Strive to maximize your potentials. He that discovers and exploits his talents on earth, will leave an indelible footprint on the sands of time that will be remembered forever. He that activates his gifts on earth will impact the world and his generation. He that maximizes his potentials effectively, will engrave his names in the sands of time and seasons of the sky. Talent is a Mandate not a Delegate.
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Sep 1, 2013
Sep 1, 2013 at 6:49 PM UTC
Stewardship Of Talent
The stewardship of talent calls attention for everyone to discover their purpose on earth, knowing we are created with potentials waiting to be maximized. The stewardship of time calls attention for everyone to maximize their time on earth, knowing we are mandated to dominate and subdue the earth. Nothing is found except it is hidden, every one has a talent. Nothing is hidden except it is a secret, every person has a gift. Nothing is a secret except it is a treasure, every individual has a potential. Every one has a secret hidden treasure to be found, ln them lives unique talents waiting to be discovered; lf only they can discover their purpose on earth. Every person has a destined mission to accomplish, ln them lives voices waiting to be heard; lf only they can activate their gifts. Every individual has a solution to provide on earth, ln them lives great potentials waiting to be maximized; lf only they can exploit their potentials. How then can talents be discovered knowing that any talent wasted will be accounted for. How then can gifts be activated knowing that we are mandated by God to accomplish a purpose on earth. How then can potentials be maximized knowing that we are created to impact our generation. Let him that seek to discover and utilize his talents on earth consult God through prayers. Let him that seek to activate his gifts exploit God's given innate ability to man. Let him that seek to maximize his potentials on earth search the mind of God through the scriptures. Is there any reward for discovering and exploiting your talents? Is there any reward for activating your innate gifts? Is there any reward for maximizing your God given potentials? He that discovers and exploits his talents for God will receive the Masters reward. He that activates his innate gifts will be remembered forever. He that maximizes his potentials will leave an indelible footstep on earth. Hope you strive to be persistent and consistent in the stewardship of talent, knowing that much is required of you. Endeavour to be faithful and obedient in your stewardship of talent, knowing we all owe God the accountability of our talents. Ensure you exploit the discovery of your talents, activate your innate gifts and maximize your potentials effectively. Strive to discover your purpose on earth, Seek to activate your talents and gifts; and Strive to maximize your potentials. He that discovers and exploits his talents on earth, will leave an indelible footprint on the sands of time that will be remembered forever. He that activates his gifts on earth will impact the world and his generation. He that maximizes his potentials effectively, will engrave his names in the sands of time and seasons of the sky. Talent is a Mandate not a Delegate.
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Heroes and villains seem harder to define when somethings happen to blur the lines The villain style of justice may appear better than no justice at all When the system fails the victim and makes the victim feel so small Where are the Heros when evil abounds? Are they still around? Who fights for truth and justice throughout the land? Who is brave enough to take a stand? Remember heroes often are easily disguised as ordinary people and don't stand out in a crowd Their anonymity allows them to work behind the scenes they effectively crush the evil villains dreams. The Heros tirelessly fight for truth and justice and selflessly care for others in need. They support and encourage those that the villains of this world have knocked down. The villains can too easily be found courtesy of our television screen they often make a showing on the 6 or 10 o clock news they are promoting violence they don't care about anyone else's views. As far as Heros go you may discover that a Heros heart is contained inside of You. Hero or Villain? The choice is yours Today you could take a stand to right some societal wrong Today you can be strong and be a Hero to a friend or loved one or a stranger in need. To them can make a difference indeed. Hero's Traits: H elping E ncouraging R espectful O pportunity Perhaps these traits are within you Be the Hero that you long to see!
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Apr 28, 2016
Apr 28, 2016 at 9:46 AM UTC
Heroes & Villains
Say, what drives a narcissist to feed on their soul Their own being, their whole, a cannibalistic role I fold, into the answers that have never been told Because I disagree that life is less than silver or gold When I was young I was 'old', wiser than age would suggest I never looked from a problem I never strayed from a test I sought to better my self, pushing others away Rising alone but never understanding how I would pay Now look today and see a fate that I crafted off a clean slate Into a plate of half consumed variables that I never ate Or even paid any attention effectively painting dissention And not to mention my descent into a mental detention I locked my self in a prison of a dozen complications A box full of games, puzzles and some mindless sedation No relation to pain, bottomless gain and no patience I snap at every ******* body for the beast I am facing Imagine that you have a paper with some scribbles and lines Now try erasing the marks so the paper's perfect - just try It's impossible because you pretend to leave the past There's always something there to make a scar that will last So now because of my choices I sit alone with these voices Saying "you could do better", to me they're nothing but noises So now I write my emotions so that the world might just hold 'em Just ignoring commotion 'cause you can pass 'em or smoke 'em
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Jul 2, 2014
Jul 2, 2014 at 3:14 AM UTC
Selfish
On autumns ground I walk, As winters snow sky blindingly glows. In the thylacines footsteps i tread, On a path the future presents. Sitting in a cafe, I realise, The tea I have just had, was built from a billion lives. Who tasted the leaves. Who told the others. Who invented the farm. Who planted the leaves. Who planted the seeds. Who made them grow. Who picked them. Who told the nation. Who created the plough, made the grow more effectively, created the axe, learned to chop a tree, learned to shape it, learned wood floated, came up with the ships, made the first boat, made it sail, told the others, discovered nations, learned their language, spoke it, found what they wanted, got tea, got it back, gave birth to 200,000 generations who split off as cup makers, baristas, cow farmers, milkmen, sugar farmers, sugar packers, cafe owners and tea farmers. 'CHEERS!' We are indeed standing on the shoulders of giants, but the weight will build on ours. Swimming the route laid out by the Baiji.
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Oct 21, 2017
Oct 21, 2017 at 12:14 PM UTC
Thylacine's Footsteps
The manifest has been written And she will be sought But when I meet her face to face How will she react? With a simple embrace? She's so beautiful Smooth skin and a sweet grimace She's always fresh and sharply dressed It's been so long that I've dreamed her Yet her image is so vivid in my mind So many times I thought I could just reach out and grab her Only to awaken to a disappearing mirage But alas dreams become reality And I feel like a groupie around her celebrity Unsure if she's aware of my quiet insecurity Even though I've dreamed Do I deserve to be here? But she merely smiles As she beckons me closer With each step I pinch myself To make sure I truly exist Just as soon as I reach her I close my eyes and enjoy the ride Her embrace is like a sweet kiss to my pride Humbling me effectively Causing my soul to smile and shine Radiating like new armor I open my eyes to drink in my newfound skin And like magic she is gone once again And then I realize She is finally part of me And no longer is reality only in my dreams
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Mar 31, 2014
Mar 31, 2014 at 11:34 AM UTC
DESTINY
grandma did steer the family ship she always liked to be in command those who questioned her stewardship were quickly given a reprimand her seven children always paid heed to the orders she'd issue out they were under her unbending reed her edicts to them ever so stout throughout her life she got her way her dictates were well known to all nothing but nothing was like her sway everyone heard what she'd call though she was a woman of authority family members respected her stewardship she had a steady hand like the admiralty who so effectively steered the ship
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Oct 28, 2013
Oct 28, 2013 at 7:44 AM UTC
Grandma
the lakewater near the banks darken with the shadows of coniferous trees not unlike the way my ***** darkened just the other evening with transgression and i find myself waiting,arcing the ash from my cigarette in fiery transient streaks. this is north west angle's public dock, a sunken relic of the anishinabe appropriately too young to be old just like the ******* rest of us. kee no wahh she spits with conviction, her forked tongue a testament to the near science fiction that keeps its ugly head low to the ground in the backwater communities of rural ontario and manitoba and saskatchewan and beyond. purple and yellow and green galaxies span across the deep space of my neck and that's good enough, they reckon, to land me in the passenger's seat. now the sun's shallow beneath the canadian shield leaving only a violent, open **** on the skyline and the watered down blood of ritual sacrifice to filter up through the cheesecloth of the underbrush and effectively discolour the poplars in a pastel identical to the lining of my **** so ask me how many children have been stranded on the pallid, uneven terrain of my thighs and i'll stop making references to my ******
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Feb 22, 2010
Feb 22, 2010 at 10:12 AM UTC
pow wow grounds
Sarin – An organic molecule Used for inorganic purposes Showering civilians Effectively icing their insides Contorting the human form into forced frozen sculptures Acting as if torture was an art of the highest caliber An acquired taste reserved for society’s finest And this was the Michelangelo masterpiece. Atropine – The organic antidote, Shoot up the stimulant to hurdle your paralysis, Relax the respiratory muscles caught in your throat, Your eyes team with tears because you’re allowed to melt, Your eyes team with tears out of profound shock, Your eyes team with tears because humans forgot humanity.
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Sep 9, 2013
Sep 9, 2013 at 9:41 PM UTC
Gas! Quick Boys!*
did it work? I give a useless tug on my skin, done to reassure me instead it reaffirms to me: I am, again, inconsolable. is the mask I wear today sealed on tight? too tight? does it hurt to pretend so much? does it seem clear to anyone else that there are loose ends I've yet to tend to? backdoors I've overlooked? transparencies?    can they see through me? I bare my teeth. canines, canines from the days of carnivores. am I that carnivore? in my genes I am. and in practice? inconsolable, uncontrollable barely a threat in her form. this question comes to me under many guises: an old man asking me: are you that of practice or are you that of genes? a professor lecturing: are you that of cultivated identity or that of inherited form? my concerned friends crying: who are you? is your mask anything like you? and then i wake. it's a terror turned nightly chorus. recurring nightmares, doctors offer. i admit i know the content of my dreams to be unfounded: in life there are no physical masks that do the jobs my terrors depict. no veil to hide the contours of each flawed personality, no mask to others, just me, weeping-in-the-bathroom, never-myself me and those attempted favours to be like one another i'll be like you so you'll like me i'll like you because i'm like you so the body charges on in this society like a mirror cross your left leg when she crosses her right, fold your arms when she's folded hers, raise your hand to say hello, raise your hand to say goodbye a kiss on the right cheek, a kiss on the left, one more on the left this is how you show love and a greeting all at once fold your arms over each other, this is sympathy, this is greeting, do you take comfort in this too? so you learn to speak with your arms, and you learn to speak with your legs, and you learn to speak with your face, and you learn to speak with your head. soon your eyes are apprentices of acquaintances, learning to borrow looks like library books, take on others' stories like they've read them end to end. so in the middle of this process you learn to effectively say: i see you, i hear you, i perceive you. and in these attempted favours, at the end of your night terrors, is the parrot that they want to see. the parrot that you argue, can't really be me.
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Aug 9, 2018
Aug 9, 2018 at 6:14 PM UTC
the anthropomorphism of people pleasing
did it work? I give a useless tug on my skin, done to reassure me instead it reaffirms to me: I am, again, inconsolable. is the mask I wear today sealed on tight? too tight? does it hurt to pretend so much? does it seem clear to anyone else that there are loose ends I've yet to tend to? backdoors I've overlooked? transparencies?    can they see through me? I bare my teeth. canines, canines from the days of carnivores. am I that carnivore? in my genes I am. and in practice? inconsolable, uncontrollable barely a threat in her form. this question comes to me under many guises: an old man asking me: are you that of practice or are you that of genes? a professor lecturing: are you that of cultivated identity or that of inherited form? my concerned friends crying: who are you? is your mask anything like you? and then i wake. it's a terror turned nightly chorus. recurring nightmares, doctors offer. i admit i know the content of my dreams to be unfounded: in life there are no physical masks that do the jobs my terrors depict. no veil to hide the contours of each flawed personality, no mask to others, just me, weeping-in-the-bathroom, never-myself me and those attempted favours to be like one another i'll be like you so you'll like me i'll like you because i'm like you so the body charges on in this society like a mirror cross your left leg when she crosses her right, fold your arms when she's folded hers, raise your hand to say hello, raise your hand to say goodbye a kiss on the right cheek, a kiss on the left, one more on the left this is how you show love and a greeting all at once fold your arms over each other, this is sympathy, this is greeting, do you take comfort in this too? so you learn to speak with your arms, and you learn to speak with your legs, and you learn to speak with your face, and you learn to speak with your head. soon your eyes are apprentices of acquaintances, learning to borrow looks like library books, take on others' stories like they've read them end to end. so in the middle of this process you learn to effectively say: i see you, i hear you, i perceive you. and in these attempted favours, at the end of your night terrors, is the parrot that they want to see. the parrot that you argue, can't really be me.
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Tell me, what do you know about me Am I just any other guy on the street Am I being hoody Or that type of guy that walk around; moody Am I the type that always tries to protect all Or that type that loose confidence in front of the projector Am I that maths-guru that always take all the A’s Or that computer guy that’s good with symbolic-gate Am I that proud guy that always put his shoulder’s on Or that humble boy that’s always scare to fall Am I that lover-boy which love makes him to change his art Or that ugly who walk around with half-broken heart Am I that man who isn’t good with public speech delivery But write poems effectively Am I friendly, annoying, stupid, handsome, ugly, optimistic just to mention few I exist in different dimension; what I am depends on you
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Sep 2, 2018
Sep 2, 2018 at 6:53 AM UTC
who i am
Shopping was the world first invitation to women, a freedom to move out of her house. Initially, Woman practiced shopping for vegetables and slowly extended to garments/jewelry/white goods etc. Today, the world has experiencing a better market due to window shopping. The concept innovated by women, the women who started window shopping has helped the awareness of the market, The more the window shopping, more the sales. The concept of window shopping   helped the textile industries to understand about their products. The textile industries has developed in terms of marketing say readymade, exchangeable, trial rooms, gifts coupons are coz of women. Its encouraged the women to do shopping effectively. Facts about shopping. Customer who shop with their friends tend to buy more costly products than when they shop alone. Next, In terms of clothing, General advises is to buy one garment at a time coz If you buy few dresses, You tend the use the first selected dress more than the others. Buying 'Take Away' in (costly) restaurant was the blinder coz restaurant charge more for the ambience less for the food. Using cash on shopping, you tend to spend less and you bargain more. Don't increase your buying to eligible for discount coupon.  A survey says that 90% of the issued discount coupons are never redeemed. Never shop on Discount Sale coz the best collection will be taken off the shelf by the shopkeeper. The amazing fact, If any one buy the best and costly clothes one size less than the one normally uses, has brought down the weight of that person.
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Jan 16, 2016
Jan 16, 2016 at 8:54 PM UTC
SHOPPING..
Shopping was the world first invitation to women, a freedom to move out of her house. Initially, Woman practiced shopping for vegetables and slowly extended to garments/jewelry/white goods etc. Today, the world has experiencing a better market due to window shopping. The concept innovated by women, the women who started window shopping has helped the awareness of the market, The more the window shopping, more the sales. The concept of window shopping   helped the textile industries to understand about their products. The textile industries has developed in terms of marketing say readymade, exchangeable, trial rooms, gifts coupons are coz of women. Its encouraged the women to do shopping effectively. Facts about shopping. Customer who shop with their friends tend to buy more costly products than when they shop alone. Next, In terms of clothing, General advises is to buy one garment at a time coz If you buy few dresses, You tend the use the first selected dress more than the others. Buying 'Take Away' in (costly) restaurant was the blinder coz restaurant charge more for the ambience less for the food. Using cash on shopping, you tend to spend less and you bargain more. Don't increase your buying to eligible for discount coupon.  A survey says that 90% of the issued discount coupons are never redeemed. Never shop on Discount Sale coz the best collection will be taken off the shelf by the shopkeeper. The amazing fact, If any one buy the best and costly clothes one size less than the one normally uses, has brought down the weight of that person.
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I have fears – they are very real to me. But contrary to what the some may think, my greatest fears are not rejection and abandonment. My greatest fear is that everyone will continue to turn their heads while victims are screaming. My greatest fear is that survivors will express exactly how they feel, whether verbally, or acting out, and they will continue to be invalidated by being told they need medication and therapy in order to control their behavior, thereby reinforcing what they learned as children. My greatest fear is that victims will continue to be silenced by therapy, or numbed from medication, and the clinicians, the researchers, will continue to ‘theorize’ and develop treatment that, in the long-run, is not helpful because they, themselves were NOT abused and have no idea what really should be done. My greatest fear is that survivors will continue to be lab rats in the development of treatment that is not helpful, they will continue to drop out, time after time, and they will continue to self-harm, ‘repeat the trauma’, and possibly commit suicide because they believe no one cares. My greatest fear is that the statistics will grow and no one will do anything about it because they do not know what to do. These are the facts:              **A report of child abuse is made every ten seconds              More than five children die every day as a result of child abuse.              Approximately 80% of children that die from abuse are under the age of 4.              It is estimated that between 50-60% of child fatalities due to maltreatment are not recorded as              such on death certificates.              More than 90% of juvenile ****** abuse victims know their perpetrator in some way.              Child abuse occurs at every socioeconomic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all              religions and at all levels of education.             About 30% of abused and neglected children will later abuse their own children, continuing the horrible cycle of abuse.             About 80% of 21 year olds that were abused as children met criteria for at least one             psychological disorder.** And this reflects only what is reported. Imagine what that percentage would be if all of the unreported cases were included. And of the millions of children that survive the abuse, many grow up to be adults who are able to put it behind them, succeed and present themselves as an acceptable member of society, and many of them do not. But what are we DOING about it? When will people stop turning their heads? When will we finally stop, look and listen to these children being abused and to the adults who were abused as children? When will we, society, decide that child abuse, and **** and ****** assault are important, and affect millions of lives every year, and that it can be just as deadly as cancer. When will we finally stop whispering and turning our heads and actually face it and do something to stop it, and effectively treat those who ‘survived’? I hope it happens in my lifetime, and I hope I can make a difference!
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Sep 10, 2013
Sep 10, 2013 at 8:36 PM UTC
My Greatest Fear
I have fears – they are very real to me. But contrary to what the some may think, my greatest fears are not rejection and abandonment. My greatest fear is that everyone will continue to turn their heads while victims are screaming. My greatest fear is that survivors will express exactly how they feel, whether verbally, or acting out, and they will continue to be invalidated by being told they need medication and therapy in order to control their behavior, thereby reinforcing what they learned as children. My greatest fear is that victims will continue to be silenced by therapy, or numbed from medication, and the clinicians, the researchers, will continue to ‘theorize’ and develop treatment that, in the long-run, is not helpful because they, themselves were NOT abused and have no idea what really should be done. My greatest fear is that survivors will continue to be lab rats in the development of treatment that is not helpful, they will continue to drop out, time after time, and they will continue to self-harm, ‘repeat the trauma’, and possibly commit suicide because they believe no one cares. My greatest fear is that the statistics will grow and no one will do anything about it because they do not know what to do. These are the facts:              **A report of child abuse is made every ten seconds              More than five children die every day as a result of child abuse.              Approximately 80% of children that die from abuse are under the age of 4.              It is estimated that between 50-60% of child fatalities due to maltreatment are not recorded as              such on death certificates.              More than 90% of juvenile ****** abuse victims know their perpetrator in some way.              Child abuse occurs at every socioeconomic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all              religions and at all levels of education.             About 30% of abused and neglected children will later abuse their own children, continuing the horrible cycle of abuse.             About 80% of 21 year olds that were abused as children met criteria for at least one             psychological disorder.** And this reflects only what is reported. Imagine what that percentage would be if all of the unreported cases were included. And of the millions of children that survive the abuse, many grow up to be adults who are able to put it behind them, succeed and present themselves as an acceptable member of society, and many of them do not. But what are we DOING about it? When will people stop turning their heads? When will we finally stop, look and listen to these children being abused and to the adults who were abused as children? When will we, society, decide that child abuse, and **** and ****** assault are important, and affect millions of lives every year, and that it can be just as deadly as cancer. When will we finally stop whispering and turning our heads and actually face it and do something to stop it, and effectively treat those who ‘survived’? I hope it happens in my lifetime, and I hope I can make a difference!
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%% It’s about leveraging potential income to enhance output-maximizing sustainability … It’s about de-funding unsustainable income outcomes. It’s about results-based data-enhanced paradigm shifts. It’s about demobilizing upward mobility: dis-empowering gentrification by underfunding the over-entitled. It’s about de-funding unsustainability until the immeasurable metric is globally assimilated. It’s about the designated data-driver. It’s about memes as theme schemes. It’s about complicating competence through collaboration in collusion – intentionally replicating re-branding – effectively identifying best practices of the best-dressed actresses until the girl in the t-shirt says “meh”.
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Sep 11, 2015
Sep 11, 2015 at 7:03 PM UTC
Immeasurable Outcomes
No one wrote a book On how to queer up the world. I’ve been waiting for Volume One On how to hate your body effectively, Because all of the brats who spit in my Cherry eyes won’t tell me what I’m doing wrong When I say “it doesn’t fit. It never fits. Will I ever fit?” Because we’re one binary and the other, and we don’t Fit quite between, and we’re doomed to be melting Snowflakes in schoolyards. We’re doomed to tears, And standing awkwardly between ‘boy’ and ‘girl’ sections. They opened up their doors to us, those who fit Comfortably or not so comfortably in either of the two Slots (like maybe this is a gameshow, and I didn’t pick The right door?) but they promptly Threw us out when we tried. And tried again. And failed and cried and threw our hands in the air like Children, misguided, in pain, stubbing our toes on the door That says “real suffering.” Because our suffering isn’t real to a world that encapsulates it in So many words as symptoms for a Common cold.
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Mar 6, 2013
Mar 6, 2013 at 4:20 AM UTC
Hear Hear Genderqueer
Sitting alone in my bed, Anxiously yearning the touch of something different. Contemplating about differences, Visualizing the new experiences, Mesmerizing about different beauties, Fantasizing the new opportunities, About women of different cultures, Ethnicity and upbringing. Pay no mind to the language barrier, As our body speak that universal language, We can have intellectual conversations, We can have passionate  interactions. Lets's ponder with deep imagination, As we diversify this love, ignore it's discrepancies, So girls of all colors come closer and get drawn like crayola, As we paint this picture to see what we can make of this blend of colors. Envision this: Background music effectively babysitting my thoughts as I listen, Laying under the moon,  With that special person.  Inwardly rehearsing,  Every move to make,  Opportunities to take, Intaking the passion from the air she breathes out,  Creating chemistry not even Einstein could figure out. This love should be an equal opportunity, You plus me that's all that should matter. So would you explore your heart? Release the stereotypes that keep you in the dark? As darkness falls, Our temperatures rise. A reflection of moonlight shimmers in those eyes. They tell me your secrets; I tell you no lies. What lies beneath your skin will be ugliness' demise. Ironic, in the dark you see me for who I truly am. And I tell you who you truly are. So far. So good. So deep, it goes beneath your beauty, It goes beyond whatever society will tell you not to do with me. Tonight your biases shall not rule thee, For I am king of this pride. Swallow your pride and swallow my pride. Release the wait of inhibition and take this ride. Our inner flames fueled by passion shall light our way. They say, we are blind but it is only in darkness that we truly see. Give up shallow emotions, let your heart be free. Immerse yourself in this reality: My love is river, all else is only skin deep.
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Jul 8, 2013
Jul 8, 2013 at 7:11 AM UTC
Skin Deep Thoughts
Sitting alone in my bed, Anxiously yearning the touch of something different. Contemplating about differences, Visualizing the new experiences, Mesmerizing about different beauties, Fantasizing the new opportunities, About women of different cultures, Ethnicity and upbringing. Pay no mind to the language barrier, As our body speak that universal language, We can have intellectual conversations, We can have passionate  interactions. Lets's ponder with deep imagination, As we diversify this love, ignore it's discrepancies, So girls of all colors come closer and get drawn like crayola, As we paint this picture to see what we can make of this blend of colors. Envision this: Background music effectively babysitting my thoughts as I listen, Laying under the moon,  With that special person.  Inwardly rehearsing,  Every move to make,  Opportunities to take, Intaking the passion from the air she breathes out,  Creating chemistry not even Einstein could figure out. This love should be an equal opportunity, You plus me that's all that should matter. So would you explore your heart? Release the stereotypes that keep you in the dark? As darkness falls, Our temperatures rise. A reflection of moonlight shimmers in those eyes. They tell me your secrets; I tell you no lies. What lies beneath your skin will be ugliness' demise. Ironic, in the dark you see me for who I truly am. And I tell you who you truly are. So far. So good. So deep, it goes beneath your beauty, It goes beyond whatever society will tell you not to do with me. Tonight your biases shall not rule thee, For I am king of this pride. Swallow your pride and swallow my pride. Release the wait of inhibition and take this ride. Our inner flames fueled by passion shall light our way. They say, we are blind but it is only in darkness that we truly see. Give up shallow emotions, let your heart be free. Immerse yourself in this reality: My love is river, all else is only skin deep.
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Joshua tree Across the high California desert you stand with lifted salutation off the beaten path the drift Of sea moisture mingles with tule fog rising from the desert floor you have briefly entered an alien World a brooding connection develops with London’s fog shrouded streets or the Arden with its Identification with It being the one natural barrier to the advancing Roman’s might and Shakespeare’s Play the woods for him was familiar but a place where change to ones fortune could occur and one Could find love mist is one of the times that a magic wand was effectively waved it produced a myriad Of realties notable connections a display that reaches the far borders of wonder pleasantness infringes On the harder order of the desert’s hotter principles farther east the great desert sentry looms above All else the saguaro cactus also raises its arms as the Joshua giving thanks for life in a stark and Burdensome land rock and scrub fills this place it takes time to appreciate such bitter circumstances But you can sink thoughtful roots that will play a symphony between sun and shadow and all the living Things that eke out a living there are a breed of people that thrive here also they can teach a lot to Others live on less you would be amazed how refreshing simple living can be get to much you find Fun squeezed out of the seams of the so called good life just think in this term when does water taste Like heavenly nectar when you have been deprived and are at a loss to find it the abundance of anything Can temper its value death swiftly occurs when the spirit of taking things for granted pervades those Times that are riveting and create completeness in us are by nature rare and treasured you don’t have To trek to far off deserts or faraway places a child’s youthful smile that is slipping away When tenderness flows and she makes your heart glow know my friend you are blessed with God’s best for all of earths time a husbands Gentle laugh his look that stirs you deeply these are but three of rarified finds that are in your life Enjoy treasure them they are personal gifts you possess today
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Jan 9, 2012
Jan 9, 2012 at 6:51 PM UTC
Joshua tree
Joshua tree Across the high California desert you stand with lifted salutation off the beaten path the drift Of sea moisture mingles with tule fog rising from the desert floor you have briefly entered an alien World a brooding connection develops with London’s fog shrouded streets or the Arden with its Identification with It being the one natural barrier to the advancing Roman’s might and Shakespeare’s Play the woods for him was familiar but a place where change to ones fortune could occur and one Could find love mist is one of the times that a magic wand was effectively waved it produced a myriad Of realties notable connections a display that reaches the far borders of wonder pleasantness infringes On the harder order of the desert’s hotter principles farther east the great desert sentry looms above All else the saguaro cactus also raises its arms as the Joshua giving thanks for life in a stark and Burdensome land rock and scrub fills this place it takes time to appreciate such bitter circumstances But you can sink thoughtful roots that will play a symphony between sun and shadow and all the living Things that eke out a living there are a breed of people that thrive here also they can teach a lot to Others live on less you would be amazed how refreshing simple living can be get to much you find Fun squeezed out of the seams of the so called good life just think in this term when does water taste Like heavenly nectar when you have been deprived and are at a loss to find it the abundance of anything Can temper its value death swiftly occurs when the spirit of taking things for granted pervades those Times that are riveting and create completeness in us are by nature rare and treasured you don’t have To trek to far off deserts or faraway places a child’s youthful smile that is slipping away When tenderness flows and she makes your heart glow know my friend you are blessed with God’s best for all of earths time a husbands Gentle laugh his look that stirs you deeply these are but three of rarified finds that are in your life Enjoy treasure them they are personal gifts you possess today
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You made me feel lonely What you did was very ugly I loved you and you cheated on me In fact, you BETRAYED me Because of you, did I go into depression Very very wrong, were your actions Thanks to them, greatly did I suffer For me, not even one bit did you care! You made me feel lonely I thought you were lovely How cruelly did you prove me wrong My suffering was quite long You drove a wedge into my heart And tore it apart!! You made me feel lonely And treated me very badly Thanks to you, did my self-belief shatter Because, you struck at my very core Sending shockwaves all over my soul And effectively trapping me in a prison cell!! You made me feel lonely While you played a game coolly Trying to destroy my relationships With my family and my best friend And trapping me in a toxic relationship Which seemed as if it would never end!! You made me feel lonely But I came back strongly Thanks to my sister and my best friend To your twisted games, did they put an end You tried to break me But my goodness set me free While you will eternally feel guilty For your treachery and infidelity Yes, you made me feel lonely indeed However, from the trauma have I recovered And learnt a lesson for life Goodbye forever, my "poor little" ex-wife!!
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Sep 14, 2024
Sep 14, 2024 at 1:07 PM UTC
You Made Me Feel Lonely
Balm for Your Soul Every feeling is real It is new but effectively true Now track my every wreck This vital virtue could not control by any rescue. Feel my ultimate jealousy for your standing by others end whether he is your friend I just want a walk, hand in hand with you. You are irrestrictive elusive you are not here yet luring Fast stimulation for your curing Violent-nascent, hollow-shadow, hard to spend moments few.
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Apr 28, 2014
Apr 28, 2014 at 6:14 AM UTC
Balm for Your Soul
A decade ago A small child cried With all his might he tried But he still lost to Don Bosco He came and conquered the arena Along with hundreds of companions But from his first day began the division Lachit, Phukan, Bordoloi and Bezbaruah The teachers dominated him Homework increased his load 6 hours soon became a bore The strict discipline frustrated him He survived only for friendship Together they defied the rules To resist he rarely brought his books With the teachers he created a bitter relationship The school responded quite effectively Punishments soon became frequent Parents were called often Indiscipline was not tolerated so easily When he roused to secondary He realized it wasn't like he had though before His hatred was no more He now began to see everything differently He saw the teacher's love and care All the hardships they had suffered He repented those he cursed So much hardships they had to bare He changed his attitude He paid attention in class He began to get positive remarks The teachers loved his new look Not a single favor he denied Without questions he obeyed every order To win their love he kept on going farther For their trust he strived Finally he got what he wanted His fame spread among them Every teacher began to know his name The boy on whom they could depend Today he is about to leave Don Bosco All those memories will just remain as a phase Never to forget till his last days Those years seems just like a minute ago The boy is now a man He laughs when he remembers those memories The fun they had will never cease He knows most won't understand "No matter how hard you try to learn, You'll never know the perks of being a Bosconian" - Swarnabh 6:22 pm, 12/10/13
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Feb 27, 2014
Feb 27, 2014 at 6:48 AM UTC
Bosconian
A decade ago A small child cried With all his might he tried But he still lost to Don Bosco He came and conquered the arena Along with hundreds of companions But from his first day began the division Lachit, Phukan, Bordoloi and Bezbaruah The teachers dominated him Homework increased his load 6 hours soon became a bore The strict discipline frustrated him He survived only for friendship Together they defied the rules To resist he rarely brought his books With the teachers he created a bitter relationship The school responded quite effectively Punishments soon became frequent Parents were called often Indiscipline was not tolerated so easily When he roused to secondary He realized it wasn't like he had though before His hatred was no more He now began to see everything differently He saw the teacher's love and care All the hardships they had suffered He repented those he cursed So much hardships they had to bare He changed his attitude He paid attention in class He began to get positive remarks The teachers loved his new look Not a single favor he denied Without questions he obeyed every order To win their love he kept on going farther For their trust he strived Finally he got what he wanted His fame spread among them Every teacher began to know his name The boy on whom they could depend Today he is about to leave Don Bosco All those memories will just remain as a phase Never to forget till his last days Those years seems just like a minute ago The boy is now a man He laughs when he remembers those memories The fun they had will never cease He knows most won't understand "No matter how hard you try to learn, You'll never know the perks of being a Bosconian" - Swarnabh 6:22 pm, 12/10/13
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We bury them in flat graves or convert them to ash and wear them around our necks, or place them in urns. And what’s this about burial pods? Your rotting corpse providing nutrients to a tree that will one day be cut down to make a casket for the person that hung themselves with their necklace of ash. I recently read about mechanically pressed ash pressed so hard and with so much pressure that your loved one becomes a diamond. Albeit grey and dull, and quite expensive. Effectively if you die first you can still be buried with the one you love, its almost like dying twice… why do we no longer honor the dead? Please don’t say an urn or a pod or a flat marked grave honor the dead. Google Highgate Cemetery. Google The Monumental Cemetery of Staglieno and you will understand the difference. It is good to honor the dead.   A death so honored that a hundred years later They’re as beautiful as ever. Go, look and see how beautiful it is to honor the dead.
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Sep 26, 2015
Sep 26, 2015 at 1:25 PM UTC
Why do we no Longer Honor the Dead?