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"aloofness" poems
*Unke Dar Pe Pahunchne To Paayein Yeh Na Poocho Ke Hum Kya Kareinge Sar Jhukana Agar Jurm Hoga Ham Nigahon Se Sajda Kareinge* **Once I reach the door Spare me from asking what I will do If blasphemous it is to prostrate my body My gaze shall bow at the door** *Baat Bhi Teri Rakhni Hai Saqi Zarf Ko Bhi Na Ruswa Kareinge Jaam De Ya Na De Aaj Hum Toh Maikade Mein Sawera Kareinge* **I am to keep your words too, O' Cup Bearer And I cannot offend the cup Whether or not you serve me tonight I will meet my dawn at your door** *Iss Taraf Apna Daman Jalega Uss Taraf Unki Mehfil Chalegi Hum Andhere Ko Ghar Mein Bulaakar Unke Ghar Mein Ujaala Kareinge* **Here, my life will be on fire And there celebrations will begin at yours I willingly invite the darkness to my abode So that brightness may exist at yours** *Baat Tarq-e talluq Bhi 'Anwar' Itna Ehsaa- e-Rasm-e-Wafa Hai Aakhiri Saans Tak Bhi Hum Unse Berukhi Ka Na Shikwa Kareinge* **Even after renouncing our relationship O’ Anwar I am to maintain the ritual of faithfulness Even unto the last breath Never will I complain of aloofness** — Translated by Jamil Hussain, Sung by Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan
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Oct 28, 2016
Oct 28, 2016 at 9:48 AM UTC
The Door
Done with thinking because that's for god to do I am just this appendage of a greater consciousness Ahab is blameless in his small existence Don't quote me quote Herman and Freddy Nietzsche They and their hermits coming down from the mountains to declare they ought to have loved their fate all along Amor fati Why couldn't we have been stuck in the herd all along guys who get love and happiness effortless no need to spend their life in anguish searching through tomes found in tombs for eons and eons enhancing their social aloofness and their unremembered trauma 'till those sad souls give those pansies confidence to leave an exegesis of their own Too smart kid that decried Christ and the shadows of a god all around only to find the search for truth was hopeless Find a way to dumbly enjoy life again and you only say again cause that's all we can control our memories and we too often forget our thought habits the pre-neolithic mind tricks on ourselves Too many MLMs profiting off false mindfulness missing the point beyond exercise and short stress relief Change your thought patterns to love your destiny That's the best we have to pretend to have control in this ̶h̶e̶l̶l̶ hole
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Jul 10, 2020
Jul 10, 2020 at 8:49 AM UTC
Pyramid Coach
I swallowed her and now She lives inside me or I live Through her, we are alive. I’m her friend, her teenage And fantasies, a sixty year old- Hair and books she ever read Long distance phone calls And delight matched our Love for Sujata, Mr And Mrs Iyer And I sat on her couch on my Despised vacations sketching Letters to Milena, Quabbani And we spoke of her brothers, Generations and cafes I went. I’m Delhi, Bangalore and Endless conversations- She never met and she’s my Lost Malayalam, postcards and A world so familiar, a childhood. Hold your breath and relax I’m going to stay and listen Till you are out of stories and I repeat, remind and you smile. I’ll get you melodies and 60s Harold Robbins and Nutan, Your weirdness and aloofness. You don’t grow old with me I’ll live, I promise as your fonts Visit places you walked and Write to you all, deep- blue Letters, deep- blue-letters. You are my first high-heels Strawberry fields and music system I’ll recite you a love story Picture him as our classic heroes And giggle as girls sixteen and Seventeen. You swallowed me And I live through you, we’re alive.
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Oct 15, 2015
Oct 15, 2015 at 12:25 PM UTC
swallowed roasted 60
Contemplating the dark With a life neither bright nor stark Shrivelled and fragile inside Aiming for wonders of the glorious mind With the sun peeping out from ominous clouds Undisguised, yet elusive, towards an onset of doubts Shrouding any fallacy Cultivating mere fantasy And the phantom of a far-fetched imagination To bring out an electric, yet marvellous sensation Shut inside a mysterious cage Grasping poetry like some sage Aiming for aloofness While mourning over the senseless Forever the beauty of words is a myth Forever superficiality is a filth The sublime scenery of sunset swish Warms the heart, treasuring one’s deepest wish Via the shimmering dawn The azure sky I so adorn To sniff the sweet odour of nature All alone, as solitary as ever, with a hazy future Nobody can gauge the depth of the imaginary And taste the splendour of the ordinary All this simplicity unravels a cosy palace Where art is sacred; where the aesthetic is a solace To end up in sensuous poetry In which there’s no calculated geometry Where the comfort of spontaneity is soothing And readiness is but a blessing For in poetry, a loner like me finds her grace For via poetry, the solitary is free to embrace And through the line of a verse, the loner dwells a florid universe… -07/04/07
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Feb 8, 2010
Feb 8, 2010 at 2:11 AM UTC
Poetic Loner
Days are not smooth! Start with the news of conflict accident, enmity, extortion, inflation and starvation! Clogs everything at night with music of friendship and snigger in the platform of virtual union! But it is full with the misfortune of physical aloofness and cloaked darkness! Napping on With a belief to get light at dawn !
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Sep 27, 2015
Sep 27, 2015 at 2:40 PM UTC
Day of reality- virtual blending and aloofness
Everyone says "Oh, don't worry! It's just a phase." Or even worse, "You'll grow out of it soon." And so you begin to think That the quirks and smirks You see in the mirror When you've wiped the shower fog clear Are somehow wrong and undesirable To the masses of others outside your door Even if what you see makes you happy. And so you try to hide Behind conformity and masks Of aloofness, Of apathy, Of indifference, Of nonchalance, Until you yourself begin to believe You've passed the phase! You've grown out of it! You're finally someone whom the world Can pour its love and adoration on! And so you wait for that sparkling moment, When you go from ugly duckling To ravishing debonair desirable swan, Yet the days turn into weeks into months, And finally years have passed away But nothing happened. And you find yourself wiping away The shower fog with a tired hand Only to see the quirks and smirks That used to make you happy Are gone and for what gain to you? Where are the masses of adoring friends? Where are the praises of who you've become? You're all alone like you've always been. But I ask you, Is this really who you want to be? Where's the girl who recites Chaucer? And rolls down grassy hills? Where is she whose snarky comments Could hours of hilarity fill? Where's the girl who laid bricks Side by side with her father? And imagined up the neighborhood Olympics with his other two daughters? So I'll ask you again, Face in my mirror, Are you happy? Is this who we're going to be?
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Jul 5, 2014
Jul 5, 2014 at 10:18 PM UTC
Question #8
Everyone says "Oh, don't worry! It's just a phase." Or even worse, "You'll grow out of it soon." And so you begin to think That the quirks and smirks You see in the mirror When you've wiped the shower fog clear Are somehow wrong and undesirable To the masses of others outside your door Even if what you see makes you happy. And so you try to hide Behind conformity and masks Of aloofness, Of apathy, Of indifference, Of nonchalance, Until you yourself begin to believe You've passed the phase! You've grown out of it! You're finally someone whom the world Can pour its love and adoration on! And so you wait for that sparkling moment, When you go from ugly duckling To ravishing debonair desirable swan, Yet the days turn into weeks into months, And finally years have passed away But nothing happened. And you find yourself wiping away The shower fog with a tired hand Only to see the quirks and smirks That used to make you happy Are gone and for what gain to you? Where are the masses of adoring friends? Where are the praises of who you've become? You're all alone like you've always been. But I ask you, Is this really who you want to be? Where's the girl who recites Chaucer? And rolls down grassy hills? Where is she whose snarky comments Could hours of hilarity fill? Where's the girl who laid bricks Side by side with her father? And imagined up the neighborhood Olympics with his other two daughters? So I'll ask you again, Face in my mirror, Are you happy? Is this who we're going to be?
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You played my heart When I didn't know That you were a coward An award of aloofness One that you wore along That robe you hang on to You played my heart When I gave my all My sincerity and core A naive genuineness One that I wear on my soul The one you rolled downhill You played my heart When emotions strangled My struggles to balance As I closed off from love The chorus of bluntness The song you taught me You played my heart When you needed a muse A bold and beautiful image To ****** your taxed brain A goal to hear me fall hard As I lost guard of my life and all You played my heart When I felt I was going crazy Effused with pain and cold Strained and stressed Lost in a jungle of the lonely Gifted with battles and concepts You played my heart Then made me learn hard That I was stronger than I was That I was unique and visioned That I was a capable phenomena Able to pass on the pressed alleyway
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Jun 22, 2016
Jun 22, 2016 at 5:21 PM UTC
You Played My Heart
The aloofness of the moon in the effervescent night In between the clouds teasing the sight As the lavish words of the owls permeates the air Summoning the wolves to howl in despair Unable to muffle the loquacious toads by the lake While the fluid branches of the trees dance to the nocturnes of the wind How they cradled the woods to sleep Still there is a flurried silence Inexplicable gloom Emitted by the bright moon Spreading like wild fire in the meadows Creating eerie shadows through the glass windows The lake glittered as if the stars have fallen in the waters She dipped her nakedness in the aching cold Emotionless Her face illuminated by the reflection in the silver waters She submerge her breath to fill her lungs She never felt as light, numb and hollow The moon signed as witness To the blooming flowers that midnight Ever hungry for the moonlight Like her convulsing consciousness desperate for salvation And to the corpse of the maiden afloat in the lake The unapologetic moon stood to watch The beautiful soul as it slowly swells Along with melancholia Writhing across the serene lake -Melancholia, Margaret Austin Go
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Dec 27, 2014
Dec 27, 2014 at 10:02 PM UTC
Melancholia
Love is a roller-coaster with volatile emotions emerging from within. To deny its existence will inevitably cause irrefutable sorrow guiltier than a sin. Tis’ is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Oh, the wise words of Alfred Lord Tennyson, how you enlighten us from afar. An unfathomable angst intertwined with a euphoric state of passion. Caged with inaction yet stupefied by its glorious reaction. This volatility is not confusion, you see. I am witnessing myriad waves of emotions emerging from the abyss within me! Is it true? Could it be? Has my unconscious decided to compose a poetic tragedy out of me? Triggering aloofness and indifference to the goodness it perceives? Have I become too jaded to feel real love literally? This tender feeling deriving from my soul, Yearns to journey beyond the engrained barb-wired pine road. However, the universe continues to reverse the roles. Now it's apathy that causes the heartache of this man’s soul. By: Michael M. De La Fuente
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Nov 6, 2014
Nov 6, 2014 at 10:03 PM UTC
Tragedy
old school game like saying exactly how i feel when i feel it not waiting the allocated amount of time before responding to texts to feign aloofness making out outside like when i was 17 at my parents house afraid of getting caught with enough surrounding trees to obscure vision oblivious to the freezing nature of this rain falling upon our skin, it's slick against my fingers, the perfect complement to lips connected, the sound of rain in the background, the feel of it falling from the brim of baseball cap (i'm wearing one for some reason?) the taste of peach (it was apples before) the fumbling of hands against clothing (where before it was inexperience, now the cold hinders movement) your stunted giggles as my tongue explored the movements in sync shortly after starting this dance feels familiar like slow song, hands on hip nostalgic yet current it's something i never knew i craved
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Nov 8, 2012
Nov 8, 2012 at 11:07 PM UTC
throwback
What he will give is the incipient  bare minimum of his heartbeat He’ll reveal just  the washed out clamoring of his  horded desire all because there would be nothing left in his own perception of a universe that may reduce his secret lust to nothing. implode like terrorists on the fantasy of his greatness yet to come… although we are born magnificent;  which then gets blinded out by all the hearsay of our original sin he won’t go too far with a notion of blissful ‘otherness’ nor squeeze too many lemons he’s got no room for confidence sugar stored on his empty shelf *however negative space can be a good thing* (he has heard) he’s dumbfounded when he wants more from someone and expects the best of their yet to be born mind reading abilities to: just understand who he is or “be gone I say!” …(hehehe) -writer could not help it- scathed in baby blisters by his choices so far... it was of course! all the: ****** babble of growing up in his _Family of origin_/original sin where he learned to swim so comfortably in precious Aloneness -----  -Aloofness- and  there he became more real than ever ---Ahh well...it’s the grand excuse for most of his life until he feels the scratch of his riotous ‘settling for’ is bleeding ****** ****** and then one day he looks in the mirror and a ghost like stroke (not yet manifested) spotlights his over bearing mind to feel what it has ~done did~ disconnected with deeds of the heart and foresight/manipulation for naught he then finds out his heart needed more than a cup of tea and a scone (mid 40's) he finds out his emotional impasse was so **** false  (almost 50) and that his lack of allowing others in was truly a waste of mental constructs (Solid 51) this I know like my own dry eyed nodding I was him (the now pleasure of hindsight... 55) but all the 'do right' stuff is cohesively on time all the contrast that created a calling for again and again   this leaning to love Linaji 2011
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Nov 9, 2011
Nov 9, 2011 at 12:58 AM UTC
original sin
What he will give is the incipient  bare minimum of his heartbeat He’ll reveal just  the washed out clamoring of his  horded desire all because there would be nothing left in his own perception of a universe that may reduce his secret lust to nothing. implode like terrorists on the fantasy of his greatness yet to come… although we are born magnificent;  which then gets blinded out by all the hearsay of our original sin he won’t go too far with a notion of blissful ‘otherness’ nor squeeze too many lemons he’s got no room for confidence sugar stored on his empty shelf *however negative space can be a good thing* (he has heard) he’s dumbfounded when he wants more from someone and expects the best of their yet to be born mind reading abilities to: just understand who he is or “be gone I say!” …(hehehe) -writer could not help it- scathed in baby blisters by his choices so far... it was of course! all the: ****** babble of growing up in his _Family of origin_/original sin where he learned to swim so comfortably in precious Aloneness -----  -Aloofness- and  there he became more real than ever ---Ahh well...it’s the grand excuse for most of his life until he feels the scratch of his riotous ‘settling for’ is bleeding ****** ****** and then one day he looks in the mirror and a ghost like stroke (not yet manifested) spotlights his over bearing mind to feel what it has ~done did~ disconnected with deeds of the heart and foresight/manipulation for naught he then finds out his heart needed more than a cup of tea and a scone (mid 40's) he finds out his emotional impasse was so **** false  (almost 50) and that his lack of allowing others in was truly a waste of mental constructs (Solid 51) this I know like my own dry eyed nodding I was him (the now pleasure of hindsight... 55) but all the 'do right' stuff is cohesively on time all the contrast that created a calling for again and again   this leaning to love Linaji 2011
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There's always a ploy, Complicated stratagems, And a backup plan. When I meet potential flirts, I throw up my guard. I save aloofness and pride For the clingy one. For the one given to thought, I display impulse, Expose spontaneity, And show thoughtlessness. For those expecting much praise, I laugh at their face, Disregarding some kindness, And I spurn their wants. But for the analyzer, Who looks inside me-- I open up the floodgates, I lay bare my faults, And try to convince the man Of every vileness And of every cruelty That I can muster. For if he believes I sin, And do so often, Perhaps it will save him then From the traps I'd lay If I let myself like him, Try to entrance him, And lie about my dark soul. This way, no man knows: No man sees my tender heart, No man knows my fears, No man feels my true sorrow-- And my heart is saved. But I wonder deep at night: Am I lonely? No... But I've run so far from love That I'll never try again.
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Feb 16, 2016
Feb 16, 2016 at 12:43 PM UTC
Stratagems
I board a public bus A graying bus driver is a woman and then morphs into a man A normal experience within a dream My eyes glaze over as I assume a state of aloofness As I tend to do when surrounded by unfamiliar people As some sort of defense mechanism As if the otherworldly look in my eyes Will thwart the formation of an ill intention forming in the mind of a stranger that occupies the bus with me Just in case Two older men are on the bus I don't validate their existence When I am aloof It feels like I am the only person truly alive Everything gradually grows dimmer As my inner world roars as loudly as an amphitheater. The bus drives for hours I've never been on this bus before and I've never been to the town I am traveling to I'm going there to check out a church Even though I'm not a Christian Hours pass... I start falling asleep in my dream The bus has no stops Finally, the bus reaches the end of its route I am dropped off in front of a CVS along with the other two male passengers One scruffy old man leers at me and smiles at me But I act as if I didn't see him I have no idea how to get to the church It's getting dark All that is around is the CVS, the bus stop, and a road with an onslaught of cars driving in either direction Why did I make this hours long trip if I didn't even know exactly where I was going? If only I could cross the wide street to get to the other side where the bus stop for the bus back home is But I can't The cars were driving at fast speeds and their was a constant flow of them So I stood in that nakedness of uncertainty and abounding possibility Stuck and calculating As the sun set over this foreign place I ended up in All because I was seeking some purpose And yet, it brought me so far away from home, the comforts and luxuries and certainties of home Yet, when I awoke, something deep and vital within me knew That I will never find my purpose within the comfort of my home.
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Nov 18, 2015
Nov 18, 2015 at 7:45 PM UTC
Bus Ride to Nowhere
I board a public bus A graying bus driver is a woman and then morphs into a man A normal experience within a dream My eyes glaze over as I assume a state of aloofness As I tend to do when surrounded by unfamiliar people As some sort of defense mechanism As if the otherworldly look in my eyes Will thwart the formation of an ill intention forming in the mind of a stranger that occupies the bus with me Just in case Two older men are on the bus I don't validate their existence When I am aloof It feels like I am the only person truly alive Everything gradually grows dimmer As my inner world roars as loudly as an amphitheater. The bus drives for hours I've never been on this bus before and I've never been to the town I am traveling to I'm going there to check out a church Even though I'm not a Christian Hours pass... I start falling asleep in my dream The bus has no stops Finally, the bus reaches the end of its route I am dropped off in front of a CVS along with the other two male passengers One scruffy old man leers at me and smiles at me But I act as if I didn't see him I have no idea how to get to the church It's getting dark All that is around is the CVS, the bus stop, and a road with an onslaught of cars driving in either direction Why did I make this hours long trip if I didn't even know exactly where I was going? If only I could cross the wide street to get to the other side where the bus stop for the bus back home is But I can't The cars were driving at fast speeds and their was a constant flow of them So I stood in that nakedness of uncertainty and abounding possibility Stuck and calculating As the sun set over this foreign place I ended up in All because I was seeking some purpose And yet, it brought me so far away from home, the comforts and luxuries and certainties of home Yet, when I awoke, something deep and vital within me knew That I will never find my purpose within the comfort of my home.
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The eyes, cornered me to the sides, Such same souls but seems so distant, Trying to fit in but I seem so different, Putting effort to open up but there's no connection, Ended up sitting in a different direction. The thoughts, Coming in against all the odds, Overpowering my positive mind, Leaving me with all the negative signs, Without any explanation I can find, I can only hide behind. The face, Trying to act like I'm not going through some phase, But only aloofness ended up surfacing, Trying to clear up the misunderstanding, Fighting inside while you started withdrawing, Feeling helpless inside, crying. The guilt, Engulfing me like a quilt, Creating problems that weren't even there, Causing your discomfort coming out from nowhere, Want to show that I do care, But I'm still trying to grasp for air. The reality, Is this some kind of cruelty? To someone who is not well mentally. Everyone faces the same thing, they say, This is just a part of growing up, they sway, Trust me this is just their way, To keep their insecurities hidden away. The sensitivity, Every little things are magnified, People's kind gestures became hidden motives, Mind rotating circles like a lost detective, Couldn't snap out of the mind's hyperactive, I sincerely hope for one's forgive. The loneliness, Is the ugly truth of this sickness, The insecurities are just hidden below, Creeping so quietly in beneath like an evil dark crow, We try to hide, we try to run but it just won't go. Sometimes it's not because we don't show, It's just because you don't know.
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Feb 6, 2019
Feb 6, 2019 at 7:29 PM UTC
You don't know
The eyes, cornered me to the sides, Such same souls but seems so distant, Trying to fit in but I seem so different, Putting effort to open up but there's no connection, Ended up sitting in a different direction. The thoughts, Coming in against all the odds, Overpowering my positive mind, Leaving me with all the negative signs, Without any explanation I can find, I can only hide behind. The face, Trying to act like I'm not going through some phase, But only aloofness ended up surfacing, Trying to clear up the misunderstanding, Fighting inside while you started withdrawing, Feeling helpless inside, crying. The guilt, Engulfing me like a quilt, Creating problems that weren't even there, Causing your discomfort coming out from nowhere, Want to show that I do care, But I'm still trying to grasp for air. The reality, Is this some kind of cruelty? To someone who is not well mentally. Everyone faces the same thing, they say, This is just a part of growing up, they sway, Trust me this is just their way, To keep their insecurities hidden away. The sensitivity, Every little things are magnified, People's kind gestures became hidden motives, Mind rotating circles like a lost detective, Couldn't snap out of the mind's hyperactive, I sincerely hope for one's forgive. The loneliness, Is the ugly truth of this sickness, The insecurities are just hidden below, Creeping so quietly in beneath like an evil dark crow, We try to hide, we try to run but it just won't go. Sometimes it's not because we don't show, It's just because you don't know.
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Low self esteem is cute, when you’re lonely. Hovering about, in some boneless pose. My invariable stream, of thoughts has ceased, I wait. Higher functions diverted, until You’ve arrived. Aloofness abounds, it thickens the air Awkward, in the skin of you towards me, cuts progressing our bodies shrink, everything contracts Towards the invisible, Except your eyes. Beautiful and deep, A different sort of infinite They only expand
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Feb 20, 2011
Feb 20, 2011 at 10:14 PM UTC
the accentuated (self) consciousness of the recently noticed
Writing. None of this is important. The poetry of flesh-and-bone characters, immunization from what is - a comfort in the recognition of ourselves and realization that we are not completely alone in our aloofness.
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Jul 15, 2010
Jul 15, 2010 at 1:18 AM UTC
Writing.
She despises the world People irritate and disgust her Proud to be known as the rebel Rises above the emotional clowns Desensitized and  disenfranchised Yet she conformed to the circus For reasons mere mortals cannot comprehend Hidden behind the eye of adjudication Yet don't dare evaluate her soul She beguiles my response with pseudo aloofness   Jaded and defended But she entertains me with angst
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Jun 3, 2014
Jun 3, 2014 at 9:39 AM UTC
Jaded
An eagle the bird of prey Clawed at the ground taking me back to the river where the tide stroked   An eagle the bird of prey A ghost of lost faces showing me the essence where the love started An eagle the bird of prey A weaver of the world spinning me on the orbit where the whispers tickled An eagle the bird of prey A slur of the speech talking to me in tongues where time is out of hand An eagle the bird of prey The darkness that stones showing me the gloom where aloofness is an ally An eagle the bird of prey A companion of my soul following me when I fall Inside the pearl of a teardrop An eagle the bird of prey A draft of echoey words writing with me as I type the muse of fruity letters
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May 22, 2016
May 22, 2016 at 6:29 PM UTC
The Eagle and I
Ostentation or Pomposity ostentation or pomposity it doesn't really matter the self importance in your words makes your head much fatter humility and realness a personality of reaching higher putting others out in front are traits that most admire aloofness or audacity pretentiousness and vanity conditions of the ego shows a loss of true sanity define it with big words or make them really small but your airs or arrogance will finally lead to your fall Gomer LePoet ....
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Oct 31, 2011
Oct 31, 2011 at 2:06 PM UTC
Ostentation or Pomposity
Not everybody is interested in everything. Everyone's got their own particular sphere and multi-limbed web of general interests. When one goes on about a topic that another finds uninteresting, then their listener is bound to get bored, (and boredom is the precursor to annoyance.) This is where tact comes in. Tactfulness is the ability to read boredom (as well as uneasiness, embarrassment, and any other general anxiety-inducing feelings) in your listener. Someone with tact knows when to change the subject and/or shut up altogether. It's a subtlety. However, the more passionate one feels about a subject, the harder it is for them to show tact when talking about it. This explains why nerds and drunks get such a bad rap for being annoying. (God forbid, a drunken nerd . . . ) Because they feel so passionately about the topics that they're interested in that they'll often talk at great length about them without any regard for their audiences' boredom. (And prolonged boredom invariably leads to annoyance.) This is why the nerdiest of nerds is often regarded as a god amongst their peers (with "peers" in this sense really just meaning people of similar interests.) Because they have such vast knowledge of such a particular subject (which is often of very little interest to most Others. ("Others" in this sense meaning people who are outside of this particular circle of peers.)) The same may or may not be true for drunks. (Although, there's something to be said about both of them being the most likely to have conversations with no one but themselves.) This also explains general aloofness (a.k.a. coolness, i.e. "being cool.") The types who seem so disinterested in everything that people often become interested in them if for no other reason than to simply find out what it is that they actually do find interesting. This is why cool people tend to be so popular. Everyone trying their hand at gaining their attention by drawing it to this thing or that thing, with a weird need of validation being thinly-veiled beneath it. (This might also explain why "cool" people tend to be such ******** often dismissing these constant attempts to grab their attention as either pathetic and/or depressing.) Then, of course, there are the word-smiths. The Salesmen. Those who fancy themselves so intelligent as to be able to twist what their audience would otherwise find disinteresting into something that they can't live without, often through some combination of communication manipulation and nonverbal tricks. But just don't listen to them.
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Feb 15, 2017
Feb 15, 2017 at 12:19 AM UTC
Attempting to Understand Why Some People Are More Annoying Than Others
Not everybody is interested in everything. Everyone's got their own particular sphere and multi-limbed web of general interests. When one goes on about a topic that another finds uninteresting, then their listener is bound to get bored, (and boredom is the precursor to annoyance.) This is where tact comes in. Tactfulness is the ability to read boredom (as well as uneasiness, embarrassment, and any other general anxiety-inducing feelings) in your listener. Someone with tact knows when to change the subject and/or shut up altogether. It's a subtlety. However, the more passionate one feels about a subject, the harder it is for them to show tact when talking about it. This explains why nerds and drunks get such a bad rap for being annoying. (God forbid, a drunken nerd . . . ) Because they feel so passionately about the topics that they're interested in that they'll often talk at great length about them without any regard for their audiences' boredom. (And prolonged boredom invariably leads to annoyance.) This is why the nerdiest of nerds is often regarded as a god amongst their peers (with "peers" in this sense really just meaning people of similar interests.) Because they have such vast knowledge of such a particular subject (which is often of very little interest to most Others. ("Others" in this sense meaning people who are outside of this particular circle of peers.)) The same may or may not be true for drunks. (Although, there's something to be said about both of them being the most likely to have conversations with no one but themselves.) This also explains general aloofness (a.k.a. coolness, i.e. "being cool.") The types who seem so disinterested in everything that people often become interested in them if for no other reason than to simply find out what it is that they actually do find interesting. This is why cool people tend to be so popular. Everyone trying their hand at gaining their attention by drawing it to this thing or that thing, with a weird need of validation being thinly-veiled beneath it. (This might also explain why "cool" people tend to be such ******** often dismissing these constant attempts to grab their attention as either pathetic and/or depressing.) Then, of course, there are the word-smiths. The Salesmen. Those who fancy themselves so intelligent as to be able to twist what their audience would otherwise find disinteresting into something that they can't live without, often through some combination of communication manipulation and nonverbal tricks. But just don't listen to them.
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Soon my wishes will be verses, earthworms unraveling a silk string that wraps us in the world. Ravishing, I'm raving madly, going crazy, coming, and coming undone. Your physical frame matched with your intellectual marvel drives me totally insane, dumbfounded and looking for all of my marbles. I'd sail a thousand ships to afford even just a glance, you're the oeuvre to all my movements, conducting the symphony of all we have. I've written a myriad of many books: essay, narrative, prose, and poem. That merely begin to document the excitingness interspersed within our knowings. This mirthy bliss of ours is an overture to our youth, it's this astute aloofness inside these hours fervidly wrapped in a cocoon of me and you. I'm not coming across, the way that I initially intended to. The truth is I'm clueless on how to take something too awesome for words, and then attempt to put sentences into them. Like those pictures of you I sometimes take when you fall asleep before me. That has been a fantastic example to myself of just a miniature way I adore thee. Scotch, IPAs, and hoppy drinks splattering laughter through the room, now how can I find one of 200,000 words that could even give justice to it. So whether or not it's romantic, I don't do it for any other reason, except that describing you and I in words is an inadequacy I'm not pleased with. When lips comfort necks, and hair comforts chests. Sleeping nestled like Bell your head nuzzled at my breast. If I could only say, how incredibeautifulamazing it's been- not last month, last year, or yesterday, but every increment between us without discriminating any piece. Then perhaps I'm getting .0001% closer to being able to describe how amazing we make each other feel.
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Dec 6, 2014
Dec 6, 2014 at 12:17 AM UTC
I Can Make Your Legs Shake Just By Talking To You
Soon my wishes will be verses, earthworms unraveling a silk string that wraps us in the world. Ravishing, I'm raving madly, going crazy, coming, and coming undone. Your physical frame matched with your intellectual marvel drives me totally insane, dumbfounded and looking for all of my marbles. I'd sail a thousand ships to afford even just a glance, you're the oeuvre to all my movements, conducting the symphony of all we have. I've written a myriad of many books: essay, narrative, prose, and poem. That merely begin to document the excitingness interspersed within our knowings. This mirthy bliss of ours is an overture to our youth, it's this astute aloofness inside these hours fervidly wrapped in a cocoon of me and you. I'm not coming across, the way that I initially intended to. The truth is I'm clueless on how to take something too awesome for words, and then attempt to put sentences into them. Like those pictures of you I sometimes take when you fall asleep before me. That has been a fantastic example to myself of just a miniature way I adore thee. Scotch, IPAs, and hoppy drinks splattering laughter through the room, now how can I find one of 200,000 words that could even give justice to it. So whether or not it's romantic, I don't do it for any other reason, except that describing you and I in words is an inadequacy I'm not pleased with. When lips comfort necks, and hair comforts chests. Sleeping nestled like Bell your head nuzzled at my breast. If I could only say, how incredibeautifulamazing it's been- not last month, last year, or yesterday, but every increment between us without discriminating any piece. Then perhaps I'm getting .0001% closer to being able to describe how amazing we make each other feel.
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Medicine induced hallucinations, body quivering with ache, and I'm hearing the sweet chime of bells In this hour of pain my mind orchestrates. The next drop from the IV, helps even greater than the last, a constant drumming in my head a beat which was not meant for dance. The others around me dressed in white say I'm doing fine and that I should rest, but when there's music pouring into the room Sleep is what I must detest. Can they not hear the wondrous sounds? The vibrations that reflects my pain? Those invisible waveforms move visibly or have I just gone entirely insane? There is no music, they tell me. It must be a side-affect to the medication. The ambiguous tune that rattles my brain, is death knocking, it is by my orchestration. But who is to say what I hear is not real? The tune in my head I wish to transcribe but I'm weak, and barely clinging to life. So no one will hear this stirring melody. This is the song I hear towards the end of my life. In these last precious moments laying in my seemingly sterile bed, the tune haunts me 'till I shut my eyes. but the tune is my comfort, I do not dread. So take me with you, oh humble melody. I welcome your amplitude with open ears Let's take a listen to what you're telling me, I dare you to move me to tears….. The warm blanket of the strings comforts me, the brass section: a foundation, a rock. Oh, but hear the timpani? It taps to the beat of my near-ending biological clock. The woodwinds, a sympathetic harmony that aides my despair. Their aloofness like the machine by my side, filling me with air. *The main theme speaks to me directly, and I've been worn thin but I swear the main line is "I've fought valiantly, but this battle I could not win."* I do not have to open my eyes to see, that the director of this symphony is myself. I've created this music on my death bed, and it was not meant for anyone else. When I close my eyes this final night, take a somber breath and leave. I'll have my tune in my head, and nobody for me to grieve. Goodbye to this world around me, now the nurse come to medicate. One last final wave of my arms. This song I hear, mine alone, I orchestrate.
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Mar 28, 2013
Mar 28, 2013 at 11:02 PM UTC
Orchestrate
Medicine induced hallucinations, body quivering with ache, and I'm hearing the sweet chime of bells In this hour of pain my mind orchestrates. The next drop from the IV, helps even greater than the last, a constant drumming in my head a beat which was not meant for dance. The others around me dressed in white say I'm doing fine and that I should rest, but when there's music pouring into the room Sleep is what I must detest. Can they not hear the wondrous sounds? The vibrations that reflects my pain? Those invisible waveforms move visibly or have I just gone entirely insane? There is no music, they tell me. It must be a side-affect to the medication. The ambiguous tune that rattles my brain, is death knocking, it is by my orchestration. But who is to say what I hear is not real? The tune in my head I wish to transcribe but I'm weak, and barely clinging to life. So no one will hear this stirring melody. This is the song I hear towards the end of my life. In these last precious moments laying in my seemingly sterile bed, the tune haunts me 'till I shut my eyes. but the tune is my comfort, I do not dread. So take me with you, oh humble melody. I welcome your amplitude with open ears Let's take a listen to what you're telling me, I dare you to move me to tears….. The warm blanket of the strings comforts me, the brass section: a foundation, a rock. Oh, but hear the timpani? It taps to the beat of my near-ending biological clock. The woodwinds, a sympathetic harmony that aides my despair. Their aloofness like the machine by my side, filling me with air. *The main theme speaks to me directly, and I've been worn thin but I swear the main line is "I've fought valiantly, but this battle I could not win."* I do not have to open my eyes to see, that the director of this symphony is myself. I've created this music on my death bed, and it was not meant for anyone else. When I close my eyes this final night, take a somber breath and leave. I'll have my tune in my head, and nobody for me to grieve. Goodbye to this world around me, now the nurse come to medicate. One last final wave of my arms. This song I hear, mine alone, I orchestrate.
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Your great mistake is to act the drama as if you were alone. As if life were a progressive and cunning crime with no witness to the tiny hidden transgressions. To feel abandoned is to deny the intimacy of your surroundings. Surely, even you, at times, have felt the grand array; the swelling presence, and the chorus, crowding out your solo voice You must note the way the soap dish enables you, or the window latch grants you freedom. Alertness is the hidden discipline of familiarity. The stairs are your mentor of things to come, the doors have always been there to frighten you and invite you, and the tiny speaker in the phone is your dream-ladder to divinity. Put down the weight of your aloneness and ease into the conversation. The kettle is singing even as it pours you a drink, the cooking pots have left their arrogant aloofness and seen the good in you at last. All the birds and creatures of the world are unutterably themselves. Everything is waiting for you.   -- David Whyte       from Everything is Waiting for You      ©2003 Many Rivers Press
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May 26, 2014
May 26, 2014 at 2:07 AM UTC
Everything is Waiting for You by David Whyte
A sheer pink lip balm A harsh light bulb-lit reflection Deep, tired, dark circles That outermost omnipresent aloofness Dark 00's and midriff The cold, 6:00 am, hollow and dim living room Seriously demeaning and only aware introspectively Noble-felt, harshly observed silence First, the summit most deeply craved and sensually submissive to Clarity and optimism Motivation and kindness But impending soon after A permanent loneliness, soullessness, sadness and a vast emptiness The every day conscience Hours spent absorbing the stillest silence possible Not being able to think full thoughts or talk to oneself All that's distinguished is feeling paralyzed in the mind Harsh bathroom lights Loud, rough water filling the bathtub Staring as the repetitive breathing moves the water line back then forth Up then down Slow moving and eerily melancholy Continues 2 am... 3 am... 4 am... Physically exhausted and still Lethargic bones Mentally continuous, even rapid, and imaginative Consisting of only slightly heavy, controlled  breaths and an idled pause Everything is paused except the mind The body goes without Naturally retracting from the mind Counting the minutes until the alarm goes off Arises to feel disoriented Resolves with more A light-dark shimmer and brown boots Perfectly placed lips A sharp nose and a sunken aura That craving, comfortable normal attained It all resurfaces The smell of that time The mentally formed associations Cold like the winter, early mornings and the fluorescent light Cigarettes like the emptiness, somber, bitterness and silence Oppressive but so liberating Depressive but so enthralling It smells malignity pleasure-filled A sheer pink lip balm
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Oct 13, 2014
Oct 13, 2014 at 3:58 AM UTC
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A sheer pink lip balm A harsh light bulb-lit reflection Deep, tired, dark circles That outermost omnipresent aloofness Dark 00's and midriff The cold, 6:00 am, hollow and dim living room Seriously demeaning and only aware introspectively Noble-felt, harshly observed silence First, the summit most deeply craved and sensually submissive to Clarity and optimism Motivation and kindness But impending soon after A permanent loneliness, soullessness, sadness and a vast emptiness The every day conscience Hours spent absorbing the stillest silence possible Not being able to think full thoughts or talk to oneself All that's distinguished is feeling paralyzed in the mind Harsh bathroom lights Loud, rough water filling the bathtub Staring as the repetitive breathing moves the water line back then forth Up then down Slow moving and eerily melancholy Continues 2 am... 3 am... 4 am... Physically exhausted and still Lethargic bones Mentally continuous, even rapid, and imaginative Consisting of only slightly heavy, controlled  breaths and an idled pause Everything is paused except the mind The body goes without Naturally retracting from the mind Counting the minutes until the alarm goes off Arises to feel disoriented Resolves with more A light-dark shimmer and brown boots Perfectly placed lips A sharp nose and a sunken aura That craving, comfortable normal attained It all resurfaces The smell of that time The mentally formed associations Cold like the winter, early mornings and the fluorescent light Cigarettes like the emptiness, somber, bitterness and silence Oppressive but so liberating Depressive but so enthralling It smells malignity pleasure-filled A sheer pink lip balm
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