#selfactualization
Careful
Crutches can become cages
Time passes
We lean and lean
We forget
Where we end and the crutches begin
Forget the viable strength of our own legs
We grow fearful of falling
We think we need to be held up
Look
carefully
Maybe these walls aren’t protecting you
Maybe instead of holding you up
they’re holding you back
blocking you from seeing
You are strong enough to stand
You can put the crutches down
You can take that first step
then the next
You may stumble
but you will not fall
Time passes
And you will learn
You can walk on your own after all
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Apr 7, 2025
Apr 7, 2025 at 10:00 AM UTC
"Be All You Can Be," says the television.
"1800-USA-ARMY."
I almost chose it, the life the TV tells me.
I almost went away,
To be a brother-in-arms.
Now, I'm thinking about being a brother-in-a-frat-house,
it hardly compares, but here I am searching
So I can be happy.
An 8 year plan for self-actualization.
Maslow would laugh; at the Army ad, at me, and at everyone who follows a path they didn't carve into rock with a spoon.
Aug 21, 2019
Aug 21, 2019 at 2:20 PM UTC
all i want in life
is to become everything
i am capable of becoming
Apr 22, 2019
Apr 22, 2019 at 11:52 AM UTC
I am becoming
Not what others want me to be
Not what the professionals say I should be
Someone I want to be
I am becoming
Through the turmoil and tears
Through the anguish of my years
Someone unafraid of life
I am becoming
A force to be reckoned with
A powerful witness to power
Someone who enjoys life
Yes, I am becoming
Oct 29, 2017
Oct 29, 2017 at 7:48 AM UTC
False leaders only want to control us
They create lies and tell us we are born impure and imperfect
never realizing we were created to be perfect
with a mind so susceptible to manipulation
we believe and believe, but all paths lead to the same door
I've opened it, we all hold the key to end this war
Sep 1, 2017
Sep 1, 2017 at 1:23 AM UTC
Do not allow your voice
to be heard only in
the lullabies of sad songs.
You create the world you see.
Take it in your hands
and squeeze.
Jan 25, 2017
Jan 25, 2017 at 1:31 PM UTC
It's the first time I feel my heart is whole, unbroken and full
I am proud that I pushed myself for so long, and finally exceeded this glass ceiling that I unconsciously created.
I reached a place of self actualization
A place I thought was made up for traumatized people to aspire to.
I feel that for once my heart is actually mine.
That my heart is home
Home for me not the people that abandoned me.
What a feeling.
I learned my worth
And I feel free
Thank you.
Aug 26, 2015
Aug 26, 2015 at 2:02 AM UTC
Perhaps one day, when I am older,
I will look at who I am today-
A scrawny girl
with her hands balled up so tight
That there are crescent-shaped depressions
in the palms of her hands
(She will be standing leagues behind me)
And I will run, run to her
with my dying strength
I'll offer my condolences,
And give withering flowers to my own ghost.
Feb 13, 2015
Feb 13, 2015 at 9:26 AM UTC
Still in motion, I struggle with shrinking sounds
of my shadow resisting the ballooning into life I find articulating so often.
What is the self?
I have been skinny dipping with this question
because I can not forget what it is to be an object,
a sense of the ever present weight of a secret word
we’ve been struggling to define.
Do I even need a diction for direction?
Could we not let our selves wash
over us like we could not falter
and if not then aren’t we already dead?
Will.
A horseshoe on fire with all the weight of emotion.
A far more intoxicating psychosis,
than being a program.
I dare the children;
play god,
there is a reason he’s known to be jealous and a man.
I will play but I’m going to bend the rules as it suits this shade at my heels
driving me further into my own lightness so that it may grow taller.
The ant and the sapling.
A sensation of of being… SNAP OUT OF IT.
Too close. You don’t want to feel this love.
You’ll become contrary to your cage
and It is that very tension that will vault me
into the sun where again I will melt back down into a wash basin
of soapy science trying to scrub reality clean.
When everything is spotless,
what will the dirt mean when there is nothing left to refer as an opposite?
The earth will become the numb halls of sadist’s with not much left of
home to live in unless we learn to fly by our own direction.
Mar 31, 2014
Mar 31, 2014 at 6:44 PM UTC