In a relationship, the question isn't How much you are willing to change. It's how much you WILL change. There's a famous phrase. There are only 2 guarantees in life: Death and taxes. But there's a third thing: change. Everyone gets taller. Everyone goes through puberty. You get where I'm going with this. But for all the things you can't change, there are things you can. The most important one: You can change your mind. And it's okay to.