You were asked "Who is the man in the relationship?" because apparently there has to be a man... But, you said "That's the point. Nobody is the man." I'm sure he smiled and tilted his head to the side because in reality isn't the man usually dominant?
I remember as a kid believing that the men had all the rights whereas the women had none at all. But, now I see if you want the relationship to work out, then you must both agree that you are equal in each others love.
I have found that maybe I am the Dominant lover, but something she may not realize is that my heart beats for her and my hand reaches for her. That my thoughts lead to her and that my body only wishes to feel her warmth beside me every day and night.
I may be dominant, but you'll always have superiority over my heart.
L<3 see, I wrote you something yay I'm not completely useless lol I love you darling!