If you really love someone, you have to let them be with the one they truly love the most. If you can’t let them go, then do you insist on controlling their life forever? Do you want to traumatize and haunt their life so you’ll never leave them alone, even in their dreams? Do you think you’re proper, fit enough to be their companion? How do you think they will act towards you after what you’ve done? In the end, can you really love if you only show affections behind a wall or pain?
There is no love that can be shown, if it is held against by its will to abide only by your bidding.