Saying “I don’t mean to hurt you” won’t stop me from being hurt. Saying “ I just want to help you” doesn’t make sense when I’m pressured to make any decision at all or I’m being screamed at, because I won’t tell you what’s wrong. Saying “ just try” is thoughtless and doesn’t make any difference, when me still breathing, is me trying. Saying “its okay” does not mean It’s okay. Saying “I’m here” means nothing if you don’t keep your promise. Saying “ I love you” is dangerous and should only be said if it’s really meant.