THE CHILD There is that head-slamming moment of clear sight. Something akin to a sucker punch. But we’re getting ahead of ourselves. The girl first slides out to a pink blanket and bow. Isn’t she a little doll? Daddy’s princess will make her mark in the world with all that beauty. Please dance for our guests, darling. And bake us a cake in mommy’s little helper oven.
THE ADOLESCENT The frills and curls and princess talk take their toll, cuddle the girl into steps of submission. Twirling for dimes and validation, letting the boys take a peep for love, fluffy mascara and Glossy lips for insurance. The M.O. of pleasing becoming implanted as smarts go on hiatus. Friends grow clique-est daggers, and gossip about the nasty abounds. Will she or won’t she?
THE ADULT Of course she will and she did. Disappointed that the earth still turns, but who is she to judge? Through the small measures and sense of her, we see that she begins to ask questions of herself. She is not an afterthought of a rib. She wants to write to the world. Her silence has been corrupted. And the metamorphosis begins. She loves, she procreates, and she sheds the princess skin of the child.
Maybe not head-slamming or sucker punched after all. She just grew up into herself.