Obsessed with something can be toxic for our self
Why?
When we go too far we'll think that our idol as God
You may think that you already have God
God that you love
God that you hold
And God that you adore
Isn't it same as your idol?
And when someone talk **** about your idol you'll get angry until you can **** someone
Depend how obsessed you're
I make sure that your idol can live with those hate
You don't need to fight back to prove them wrong
All you can do is support them

Then how about God?
God don't need you to defending Him
Because God who will defending you

Then why we became obsessed with something?
Because we don't love our self
So we need someone that we think better than ourself
We don't realize how precious you're and every man is equal

Start from loving God first, because He is the one who loves you more than anything. Then you can love yourself and love people

God is real
God loves you
And God wants the best for you