a while ago, i read a quote it says: "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth" it made me think whether or not that child is me am i being unreasonable am i making trouble just because i haven't felt the warmth i've always craved? am I really being good or just seeking attention? is that all my deeds are when looked at with an ice cold eye? am i just being troublesome to try to gain some semblance of acceptance from my own family? are the things i do things i want to do or a way for me to just lash out to be noticed or praised for something? am i trying to burn down my relationship with my family to feel the warmth that was never there?