For the longest time I always felt that love was a feeling and not a choice. That once the good and euphoric feelings were gone that was it. But it's a choice, love is being with someone even when they annoy the hell out of you. When there's nothing better to do but sit at home and stare at each other. Love is choosing to stay with someone through thick and thin. I choose to love you, care for you, be there for you in good and bad, all of it. I choose to spend my life with you and enjoy all good and push past all the bad, together.
My little realization that my relationship is totally fine and stable if we're not constantly "head over heels" and that there doesn't need to be constant heart racing, palm sweating, can't breathe kind of love.