The scars are real, everyone loses ones that they Love. The Pain that never goes away is real as well too. But Christ is there strengthening us through this. For we all have to deal with Loss, and Suffering. For we all deal with Pain, Sorrow, and Hurt. This is what causes Depression among other things. Only through Christ , can we become Over comers. For it's him that lead us out of terrible situations. We all have things that we have to deal with Daily.