Would it not make eminent sense to Encourage believers to follow the example Of Mary and Joseph and regard their Children as the Children of God ( which in a sense they are ) rather than treating them as their own personal property ? The image of God entertained by children Who have received LOVE Is a mirror of their first experiences. Their God...WILL Understand, encourage, explain pass on knowledge, and be tolerant of mistakes. He Will never punish them for their curiosity, Suffocate their creativity, ****** them , Give them incomprehensible commands, or strike fear into their hearts. Jesus, who in Joseph had just such a father, preached Precisely those virtues.