After almost a lifetime married I sat down and reflected on us. Why we ever got married I will never know. we dont like all the same things. All you seemed to want from me back then was to get me into bed. you thought *** fixed everything. You did not save up to get married. You just let it happen. I had no idea if you would make a good father or husband. I was fascinated by your looks and the muscles under your shirt. On reflection I am quiet sure we got married for all the wrong reasons. But oh my gosh! How happy we have always been.